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My wife is a bitch and I hate her - what can I do about it?

Couple arguingOk, so your wife is a bitch and you hate her. Here’s how you fix that. File for a divorce. Hate has no place in a marriage. A husband should not be calling his wife a bitch, nor she calling him any similar names. The relationship between you and your wife is supposed to be one that adds value and enhances both your lives. The point at which it’s no longer doing that and what you feel for your wife is hate and what you think about her is that she’s a bitch, you no longer have reason to be married to each other. Even if there are children in the picture you can both still be parents to your children without needing to be husband and wife when at least one of you would rather not be.

Now, of course, if you’re just angry about the way things are in your marriage and you’re finding it difficult to communicate with your wife, but it isn’t really that you hate her and it’s not that you think she’s a witch spelled with a B but just that she frustrates you by acting controlling and petulant and you don’t like the way she chooses to express herself, you can always try to get help from a third party to help you and your wife learn how to communicate better and build a better marriage. A better marriage can be built. It’s just that usually we don’t want to bother to try because it’s not really all that easy. It takes more work than we’re willing to invest. We find it easier to just hold on to our resentments and walk around hating each other and calling each other names.

You have to figure out for yourself if it’s worth it to make the effort to buy and read marriage books, take marriage courses, talk to marriage counselors and actually dig your hands down in the worm infested dirt and start planting the seeds that will transform your marriage from a wasteland to a flourishing garden. Ok, so I need some work in the metaphor department but my point is, your marriage is what you chose to make it, and if you’re not willing to go out with all the tools needed and do the work necessary to make it flourish then you should just officially and legally abandon it and be done with that.

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  1. John

    Well I tried to talk her and asked her to go togther to a marriage consultant, he reply was go by yourself, I am not insane to go to a consultant. Told her, ok so let us go to our priest (we have a religious marriage) so we can speak to him and he will help us. She said go by yourself. If you want to go to get a divorce then ok go. I said no i do not want a divorce, i want to explain to him the way we live so he can help. You always blame me and argue about everything, so I am going to tell him everything I do, and everything you do, and then he can advise who is wrong and who is right, maybe me, maybe you???? she f**king refused to go! Tell me what to do?

    1. Nathan

      Thunder punch that bitch in the vagina and then dick slap her across the face. Bitches don’t disrespect!!!

      1. George

        NATHAN (and others like you)

        First statement: I’m a man who has a few problems with his wife and
        I just joined this site…. wow…. this is a great forum for guys who want to beat up on women.

        If you guys (collective sense) can’t express your feelings in a constructive or at least non-aggressive way, then perhaps there’s a reason your wife argues with you????? If you talk like this about your boss(es) then you likely have had many many jobs that you walked away from either because your (misplaced) pride wouldn’t let you admit you were wrong, or you were fired because you caused problems and destroyed the morale of the workplace.


        When you come into a forum and take the time to read the problems of other people - think first: “What is wrong with the picture?” “What is the guy/woman doing that keeps this problem going?” What constructive advice would help me if I had this problem?” Then, perhaps someone else will appreciate reading about your own problem or reading about the SOLUTION you are proposing.
        You are married? Then you must be an adult!

        1. DP

          Hey, thanks for being the guy to actually take a few minutes and comprise a valid thought against this. I know you’ve received multiple down votes (I presume this comment will as well), but it’s nice to see a person on the Internet not immediately deferring to sexist/racist/social thresholds for their argument.

          I say to you sir, thank you for your logic and valid reasoning; more people that think before speaking are needing in this world.

        2. Joe

          Cockblock Feminist Ballbusting Mangina advice. You obviously don’t understand a Modern Man’s daily struggle with an illogically manipulative and spiteful female. Up is down, good is bad, and arguing = addictive adrenaline rush to these damaged female rageaholics. Violence is bad, no kidding Sherlock!
          A solution? Stay Away (out of self-preservation).
          Take good care of yourself. Do your job, and don’t listen to the’s and the Witches or Manginas.

          1. Robert

            yeah these guys who have perfect lives i hate them. I have a bitch wife too nothing makes here happy. I do everything i can to make her happy and I am not a pussy just a nice guy but bitch bitch never enough money i am not as good as other men blah blah ..I am fat her friends are happier than us blah blah…i wish i never met her…I am a christian and do not believe in divorce..she is my thorn in my flesh peace will not come until I die…these guys with perfect wives why dont you stay off this forum..I call them as I see them bitches…I have tried all that romantic crap and books advice nothing works…i am not sure who write books on these crazy women but they have no clue what it is like ..nice guys finish last! just a mans curse! I made the mistake of picking the wrong wife….the reason men here say bad things is because they are stuck with a wife that you cannot speak too..I am a good man but I say bad things about my wife cause it is true. we live in a man hating society where women are king..and this is against the bible and men need respect. I give my wife all I have and she sucks the life out of me never happy bitch bitch bitch! you have no idea people i see it all the time the rise of Wonder bitch is on the rise! only Jesus can save us all! no joke

          2. GTF

            All you p*ssies must have tiny c*cks that’s why your wife hates you! Typical F**king American men complete mamas BOYS not men at all. You treat women like shit all through your lives because you compare them to your mothers which they can’t live up to and who could when they’ve wiped your asses till you were 21. I can’t believe some of you are hiding behind Christianity to solve your problems. If you weren’t a complete p*ssy before you certainly are now. Yeah let’s get advice from a priest , someone who’s never been married ! What great f**king advice. F**king yanks, I feel sorry for American women. Your men are pathetic!

          3. Dude

            GTF, you must be a chick-bitch to use my tiny cock against me in such a hateful way. However, what penis will ever be large enough to satisfy the inconsolable bitch inside the bottomless pit of a negative vaginal personality?

        3. Grace O'Malley, Pirate Queen

          George, well said! There are many losers replying on here! Very low life disgusting people! What a sad state for our human population! People to be so rude, crude, mean, and just plain gross! None of these males that speak like this…would ever get a date with a decent woman! Good woman would run from them, if they could see their evil before they got into that crazy ass relationship! Many males, hide this way of speaking to women, and about women, from the women they date. Then once they feel they have this woman, they unleash a fury of hell on them, that is beyond belief! I agree with what you wrote to that low life Nathan! You can’t change a person like him…he is what he is! Doomed!

          1. Dystonic Rxn

            Grace I hear your anger and frustration with some of the comments here.
            I do wonder, though, what would possess you emotionally or psychologically to want to venture into what clearly is a male dominated forum when many other are available for women?
            Food for thought?

            I have overheard many women saying worse things about men during their ladies night out, yet somehow these comments by men although clearly gruff and inappropriate at times are more degrading those of women?

            Or worse those women whom many of men live with who refuse to see their own side of the street, if I may, and blame their male partner for the failings of the relationship. My wife will speak to me in ways her girlfriends would never put up with, yet that is ok according to some women because they are just speaking their “truth” or “speaking their mind”. That is what this forum for us men is mostly concerning.

            In age of the emasculation of men, we men need a place to air our grievances (admittedly vociferous and inappropriate at times) without the judgement.

        4. mancave

          “First statement: I’m a man who has a few problems with his wife and”

          this statement is straight up bullshit, its a bitch typing not a dude because guys don’t feel that way only bitches.

        5. Jon Morgan-Parker

          I didn’t find your opinion very helpful here! You incited arguments and didn’t really give an answer ?
          Being condescending in your first paragraph didn’t help either!
          I do suspect you are in fact a female posing as a man!
          I would try to write your very well versed opinions in a more constructive manner! Obviously the guy is having a huge problem with by all accounts is a woman possessed! If the guy has to come here for some collective advice? Then I would have suspected , unless this is just a hoax site? That he is trying everything he can for his loved family, marriage and life together. This world of marriage isn’t a text book, follow these rules etc…
          I believe people can be so so horrid, aggressive, selfish,planning and scheming wicked , lying and plotting all for their own agendas!
          There are Women who kill in this world, just as many as Men!
          I will save you the time from reading the list of Women who have been so murderously, scheming.
          I do believe that in this world , a man who is as doted on and providing for his beautifully loved family and wife, in the best way he can. Always comes last. In other words, ” good men suffer” as well as good women .
          He may have found himself in a situation where all hell has come to his door! I for one find his wife’s behaviour concerning.
          I would like to see you in the same position?
          Men resolve their differences in the way that men do and it is completely different to the way a woman does! We are all, not from the same mold!
          This man may have tried all he knows as a person from whence he came?
          I find his problem a considerably uncompromising one!
          Let us just try to consider that his wife is an Alimony grabbing, Gold digging, scheming harlot? Who won’t stop until she has what she wants.
          FREEDOM TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS AND LIVE LIKE A PAMPERED TEENAGER! Without having put one ounce into the family unit where being unselfish, committed, sacrificing isn’t on her list!
          It takes two to cause an argument in a marriage. Without considering compromise, it is on a losing downward spiral.
          If in the court of law this man can prove that his wife is acting and behaving as unreasonable as she is? Then I would take that chance if I was him? In that way he can prove his concerns for his family, meaning children.
          My advice here would be for him to do just that. Get proof of her unreasonable behaviour. Let the courts decide and protect those who are innocent and their futures together. A woman would do all the above I have mentioned if the price was large enough!

        6. Gary

          Sounds like you are a lucky guy. Some peoples problems can never be fixed. That’s why there is divorce. Life is too short to live it in pain.

        7. Mama

          That was one of the most intelligent responses I’ve ever read, and I’ve been to many sites on help w/ my marriage. I’m not looking for it to be solely his fault, I’ve read things that have made me see how I’m very wrong too. I love my spouse, but he simply will NOT communicate w/ me. So..even though I’m a bit ashamed at laughing so hard on some of the others comments, I truly appreciated you kind and knowledgeable words.

      2. Grace O'Malley, Pirate Queen

        Nathan, you talk like a scum bag! You deserve no woman period! I hope that if you do ever hurt a young woman or any woman like that…that she is prepared to protect herself from the likes of you with her little friend that you do not see coming! lol That friends name is “SMITH”! Now go say this to your mother, your sister, your female friends, female cousins, and see if they think you are a decent man, or have any class? LMAO at you!

        1. Matthew Fournier

          I hope with your attitude about how a woman should shoot anyone she doesn’t agree with lands you in jail you narrow minded f-ck

    2. Stuart

      It isn’t about who is right and who is wrong. The real question is ‘what is right.’ Its good to see that you are trying to make things work. Next time there is an argument, instead of arguing back. Listen. But listen with intent. Figure out what she is saying. When you think you know, ask her if you understand her. (for example, “You seem frustrated that the washer isn’t working. Am I right?” or whatever she is saying). When she feels she is understood, there won’t be any heat. When you try to focus on her needs over the words she is saying (this is hard), you can avoid getting heated as well. I hope this helps someone.

      1. Joe Average emasculated man

        That’s hilarious!!!! There are so many toxic women out there! They can’t handle being parents or wives because they are too worried about their jobs/careers. If that’s what you want don’t get married and have kids. You just make people miserable!!!

      2. Joe Average emasculated man

        I had a marriage council lecture me for 30 minutes about how women have to go to their job and do all the housework and take care of the kids etc. The a-hole didn’t even ask me a question! In fact we had made many sacrifices so my wife could stay home with the kids (for 7 years). I spent every night taking my kids to activities. I told him this and he was still a prick. You cannot do anything. Men are apparently all evil.

      3. Simon

        Try in to have a decent conversation with my wife is like tlking to a brick wall..and pointless…she never listens arhgggg

    3. pat

      I actually went to councilling with my bitch and twice with different counsellors she said “I am not going back to see them or next time I am telling them they are wrong” because they wanted to discuss her personality and the problems it causes instead of mine. Even trained professionals don’t know what they are talking about and are wrongvin their educated attempts to find a solution. I should have listened to her family who warned me, but I fell for the fake act.

    4. Chicago

      If you feel hate towards her,its time to seperate,once theres a feeling of hate it can never go back because you always remember why you hate her.hate leads to violence

    5. Bill

      I hate her with a passion. She rages at me, can belittle our kids, rarely cooks (hello Wendy’s), never cleans and of course doesn’t work. I stay for my kids, it’s not a healthy environment but I’d never leave them with her.

      1. Mama

        Sound like there’s something going on w her. Maybe she is depressed. Have you attempted to talk to her? Help find out the reason? Or are u just not doing anything about it, so later you can say she’s the reason for any future divorce filings?? Women don’t just choose to be this way! There’s a reason, and I think there’s so much your leaving out!! Or inventing!

    6. Tony

      Same here I think most Women are to stubburn, I asked my ex wife to come to a councillor with me she refused to with ‘I’m not crazy I don’t need help’, I gave her some notes on how to be a better parent and improve your relationship with your spouse she refused to read them & then just played on her phone, I had a mate to who asked his ex wife to come to councilling with him, She refused & while he was at his councillor she was at home packing up and leaving to run off with his best mate!! Some Women are so cruel!!!!!

    7. Hawk

      If she is not willing to work on the relationship, I.e. Counseling and such then you have your answer. You’re done. Move forward.

    8. Spartan 10

      She won’t change fella my wife is the same all ways got to be right calls me all sorts of shit doesn’t respect a single thing I do she a right cow just to day I’ve done a 16 hour duty I get in the door and as soon as I walked in I get a dirty look and told take the dog for a walk in ask why haven’t you or my step son taken the dog to get a response of he loaded the dish washer ok I been at work for 16 hours so I take the dog out get back got to go shops so I pick her up a bottle of lucazade and a penut flavor kit kat to get moaned at that’s it not the right thing really I ask what you wanted you said nothink and put the phone down now your moaning I didn’t get what you wanted arrrrrrrr now it’s 1 30 in the morning I been up 22 hours been at work all day would like to sleep now HOWEVER she won’t turn the light the self fish cow

      1. JD

        I can’t comprehend a woman this bad. Take her phone out of her hand and tell her she can have it back when she stops actin like a spoiled child and more like an adult. She’s a parent. An adult. She sounds like my teenager. There are some women out there not like this. You work hard and deserve better. Is get out of that.

      2. Simon

        I know the feeling…i get home from my job and all she ever does is just sits there and plays games on her iPad phone or laptop..she’s using me for money…she’s one big bitch and a half

    9. barry

      try not communicating with her for long periods; be super independent and leave her on her own; go out and do your own thing; clean up after yourself of course; but stop talking; minimize communication and show her that you have your own life; you will notice the bitchiness will stop

    10. Simon

      If that was me…I’d seriously just get up and leave…my wife is the same…barely talks to me barely rings me…sleeps as far away from me as she can…wish I never met her…i feel trapped…So get up and go and live life to the full…U don’t need this shite going on.

    11. Miller

      I am in the same position my wife is a bitch and complains about everything she has insane mood swings too. She is a very bitter women. All she cares about is herself she never compromised once just wants everything her way she doesn’t work and sits at home watching tv and playing on her phone all day and night. I get home from work and the sink is filled with dirty dishes for me to do, but I I leave one glass on the bench she goes crazy. I work full time pay all bills and buy groceries she took my life savings $110000 to buy a house that she wanted and didn’t contribute anything herself. And when I said that I’d saved that money my self she went wild and started hitting me. She talks to all her guy friends all the time and it doesn’t bother me but if I was to speak to a female friend she loses her shit and says I’m a sick pervert. Even when we are out if I look in Any direction and there happens to be a women in that direction she thinks I’m being a pervert even when I havnt even noticed that there is a women there. I have to Avoid going to the beach because she thinks I’m looking at women the whole time. Even when I play with my friends daughter she thinks I’m being a sicko! that thought doesn’t even cross my mind. She openly says other guys are hot and checks out guys all the time. When I get home from work I just wonder what I’m going to be in for when I walk through the door. She never wants to have sex we have been married only a year and have sex maybe once a month if I’m lucky. Is that normal? Then she asks me if I love her? When I tell her how she is being she calls me a child and to man up. She is quick with her words so when we argue she can shut me down in seconds as I am very quiet. I don’t want to divorce her as my parents are old and will worry about me even if I tell them I will be happier being single. If they were not around I would have left her already. I don’t know what’ve to do.

    12. Gary

      Hate to tell you this buddy but your marriage is over. As you tell it has been for a long time. I say this because I can relate to your situation. If you do not have any children run, yes run to the nearest divorce attorney. Get the paperwork done. Just make damn sure that when you give them to her you are ready to walk out that door. If in time you find tor made a mistake in leaving you can re-marry her. I should be giving this advice to myself.

  2. seth

    I tried talkng to her but she doesn’t care or want to know, and when I confront her she gets violent and wants to fight instead of resolving issues, if it weren’t for the kids I would have left her crazy ass a long time ago, I don’t think I have a relationship anymore I just sleep in the same bed no cuddles/sex/or I love you, She don’t even mind me scoping out other broads! should I just leave, she’s got most my money anyway

    1. Phil

      My wife is exactly the same. Suffers from depression and I’m ready to walk. violence and just simply a birch to me. Time to walk I think.

    2. mierda

      LEAVE HER. Its tough but itll be the best thing you ever do, man. And NEVER get married again. Bang bitches. Let them move in with you. Have girlfriend(s). Whatever. But never marry one of those crazy broads again. Its not worth it. I am still stuck in my shit marriage with a Russian cunt. She is emotionally way stronger than me. She f**ks me like a cold rock. A prostitute shows more emotion. And the kicker is, I am an intelligent, cool, friendly, witty, educated, successful professional. Even our MAID told me the other day that this bitch doesn’t know what she has and she should treat me like a king. Now I wanna f**k the maid. LOL. I think I will. I have stayed for our son and daughter but its at a point where its probably even better for them if the bitch and I don’t stay together. I plan to save up some $, lose a little weight, and leave the bitch within a year. We can coordinate a mutual divorce if you want and go to a strip club for a divorce party if you want! ) Leave her.

      1. Fiona

        And your surprised, really?

        You marry a mail order Russian bride. For true love right?

        Get real, you were a passport, end of. You got the sexy woman, the sex, she got the passport. Sounds like a fair deal to me. Oh sorry, did you think she was really into you. That’s the price you pay for getting your ego rubbed. If it wasn’t worth it, I think the only one not surprised is you.

        There’s no fool like a middle aged fool.

  3. Mark

    I have no one to talk to. My wife and I fight all the time. She has a major depression problem and so do I trying to deal with this situation. We fought all day today. I finally realizes that I have married my mother. I worked the whole day in the yard and she bitched about how I was cutting the grass wrong. She screams at me and looses her temper in front of the kids and then demands me to kiss her. Then I am to repeat why I was wrong and what I will do to change. I told her who kiss a snake. She slamed the door and ate a huge amount of ice cream. And another thing she has gone from a size 8 when we married to a 3X today. I can’t stand her fat lumpy large ASS! It’s God curse on me. I never like fat women growing up and I am married to a women who has let her self go. I don’t know what in the hell to do. If I we single again I would never ever get married again. I rule the day when I said I do. John said he had a religious marrage. My wife is a Baptist and I am Catholic. I have been forced to go to a Baptist church. I loth the Baptist church. I think it’s all show woth NO substance. The is NO tenderness in our relationship anymore. I do the cooking, cleaning, yard work, run my own business, Remodeling the house next door. I am physically spent. Sorry for the rant, I had to get it off my chest. Thanks guys, good luck.

    1. Scone

      WHY did you do all this, what were you thinking you could die tomorrow tell her to get the f**k out why would you want to be married to jabba the hut

    2. Sheera

      Buy her some flowers and a sweet card!! Have some long over do make up sex!?! Try listening to each other with out blowing up!? Try being friends before lovers !? Get u some!! Encourage her and do jumping jacks in front of her!? Try asking her to walk around the block holding hands her!? This make you look cool!? You be be the man the shit!!! Be the stud!

      1. dick

        lol.yeah,what they said….that will be all you need to make her about tell the POS to go f**k herself,lawyer up,and get the goddamn headache over with.they (99.99%),are nothing more than bad actresses,in their own reality show.they will change into whatever they need to get whatever they me,when a bitch is finally done with you(nothing left to take),she wouldn’t piss on you,if you were on fire.

        1. Got a spoilt bitch

          Truth, bitches take what they need and want. You’re last priority, if you’re a priority at all

    3. Jon

      I hear your pain man. I feel quite sorry for you both.. Could it be that your wife needs a doctor? It could be a serious matter for a professional to deal with??

    4. Dystonic Rxn

      I am sorry to hear your pain. I realized a while ago I cannot please my wife as much as I try. It is up to her and her God to have joy and peace. I am not still great at it.

      Now I no longer do most of the things around the house. I hate it sometimes because sometimes there is little food in the house for a few days, the laundry has not been completed, the kitchen is a mess, etc but don’t say anything. I allow her the dignity to make her own decision to do the things a stay at home wife SHOULD do. I will go to the store on the way home to buy small amounts of essentials but that is it, do some of my own laundry, etc

      I stopped enabling a grown woman from bearing the adult responsiblities all adults CAN take care of.

      I am learning more and more to take care of myself, and through this self care I can in a mature and Godly way care for those around me without thinking I need to be their “god”.

      1. JD

        I love how you handle this. I hope she improved. In the long run you’ll go crazy for lack of respect and affection but at least you aren’t full of anger. Tread your own path… it’s a good one.

    5. ang

      No wonder she treats you like shit you might want to work on your looks before you pick on her for her fat ass.. In my opinion your lucky you can get anyone at all
      Fugly hahaha
      You look like a smashed crab

  4. Will

    Best thing to do is f*cking leave the wife. Just move on. You know the trouble a scornfull woman can cause. It is too much of a price to pay to risk freedom. The system doesn’t care or understand what men go thru with these hellish women. Women do not know what they want. They are like spoiled brats and they have oral fixations. If they don’t want you(their husband) it is usually cause they are sucking someone elses dick! Never ever get attached to a woman……… just pretend that you love them so you can get in their vaginas! Keep playin them, that’s all they’re good for! They own you if you let ’em get to you!

  5. Jimsen

    So I asked my wife to remind me which gift from my parents belonged to which of our daughters. She assigned the gifts then I asked her if she was sure and she blew up! Do what u want, call your dad and ask him. F##k you. It happened so fast. She can be such a bitch to me but somehow it is my fault. This happens all the time. I’m tired!

    1. J Perc

      Jimsen…your mistake was asking her anything. Make your own decision and when she complains just say F##k you if you feel like fighting or just pretend you don’t hear her and go about your business…lol

  6. Jim

    I see there’s a lot of stupid woman that don’t appreciate what they have. I’m on the same boat as you guys, I’m always the voice of reasoning and had always said sorry even though is not my fault, way too many times. For the good of our lovely toddler and my marriage. Her mood changes like the stock market. If you think it through you will realize that these woman are far dumber than us, we are still to blame for marriying them but who would have known. I have given a lot for this woman but nothing works and life is way too short to spend it with a conplete b****.I have a master plan to divorce her and be happy once again, not in a short time for it to be perfect. Always think with your head before your heart or rage, that’s exactly what I’m doing.

    1. Pus-y Alex

      Its very important to have a plan B even a long distance plan.Just let her bitch and do your background check before you leave her.I have a bitching wife too.There are 2 days good and i am the best and than all the sudden everything i do is wrong.Be on the phone too long - the food i made is horrible - ignore me when i have a question - and when i asked the second time she starts to yell at me”if i dont want respond you have to accept that”.Sex is just when she wants and when i refuse she gets off but when i want she most of the time show me the cold shoulder.She told me “it has to be her Idea”!!Then she wants that i use the kids bathroom - she wants her own bathroom - fight again!!She wants to be treated like a queen and treat me like a slave.Most of the time i agree and appologize and say yes and do whatever she wants because i dont like to fight every day - until i cannot anymore - than we have a big fight…then 2 days good and shit starts again!!I will leave her just dont know when.It is just a good feeling to know that i dont have to be with her - we are free humans - even men are human!!Btw.the 3 kids are not mine so i am not in charge like it would be mine.Just dont understand this hole scenario - why she loves me and treat me like shit??
      She tolds me actually once i am a peace of shit!
      Sorry for the bad english but i am originally from Germany - here since a half year and married since 4 weeks?!?!!
      What a shame to post this but it is what it is!
      I am a pussy - there is nothing more to say but better times will come!!
      Good luck to all of you and think positiv!

      1. Sick_&_Tired

        We all feel like a p**sy when we take the crap from B**** wifes!! I am planning on a divorce….unfortunately I knew my “wife” for years before I decided to get married. Not more than 2 months after getting married the “DIVORCE” word starts flying around! I’m like WTF??? No Worse feeling in the world than realizing you married your “mom” (Worse Nightmare!)….. GOD help us.

        1. Scone

          Go back to being mates, the good times, she is using you f**k her one last time then dump her straight away and say “now you know how it feels bitch”

      2. Dee

        It’s about control.. control your woman if capable or she will control you. Stay far away from damaged goods. Women with abuse history. Look at their family and their parents and mother and family history before you get involved with these crazy women I learned my lesson the hard way

  7. Marti

    I just want the men who post here to know something. What you are dealing with is not just “that’s the way women are” but there is something spiritual going on here. These women are under the control of a spirit that was around thousands of years ago. If you know anything at all about the Bible, this spirit is called Jezebel. She is a controller. She is a manipulator She is an actress. The bottom line is she wants to usurp your God given authority. She is not happy being your wife. She wants to CONTROL you period! She will do this by any means necessary. She may have started out loving and possibly even helpful, but she has graduated to a hellish position of demeaning brutality. Mark’s comment about her criticism and then her desire to be kissed is typical of a women under the power of this spirit. And you men are thinking “why in the world would I want to be physical with this woman who just bitch-slapped me?” Believe me men there are a few women out there that understand that love is love and control is control. If your wife is trying to control you, she doesn’t really love you period!!! As a Christian, I am praying for men everywhere to be released from the bondage of this power. I hope and pray that all of you find nice women who will help you and not hinder you. .

    1. Bob

      And some of these women are actually just batshit crazy - saying they’re possessed is the stupidest thing I have ever heard in my life.

  8. sucked up guy

    Hi GUys

    I am going through the same f@#$kin problem. my wife is more interested in her parents and want me to be with them always. she bring examples of those d i ck asses, who just keep doing what their in laws says. i am an independent guy, i dnt need ur parents to tell me what to do and what not to do, i have my own life. moreover this f&*((kn bitch is married in my family, I am not married in her family…

    my inlaws interefer a lot in our relation and have spoiled the whole relation. my parents live overseas, but still all blames comes to my parents. even though they dnt even interfere by any possible means.

    I have no clue what to do next with such a situation.

      1. Scone

        Wait till she’s out of the room and ask her dad for a blowjob, if she comes in while he’s considering it, dump her and tell her its because her dad hit on you

  9. pissed in pittsburgh

    My wife is a bitch too. I know she is f**king a guy i met a couple times. I could see it in her eyes when they talk. We are separated for two years now and i can bet she is banging his nuts off every night. At least i know she is not blowing him because she is lousy c**k sucker. I just dread the night i stop over and she is riding his d**k like no tomorrow. I’ll know too because she can’t hide her facial expressions. I am letting it go for now but sooner or later i’ll divorce her after i get some pics of f**king him and flood the net with them. She gavce me this bullsh*t about they are just friends and bla bla bla and i just walked away last time i saw her. I know he;s sticking his d**k in her and even though she does have a tight pu**y sooner or later she’ll wear him out and move on and expect to come home. SHe’s dreaming if she ever thinks she can come back here. Shell have to fidn some other guy to bleed dry and f**k and by them. Aww f**k her

    1. pissed in mo

      that lady says dont call her a bitch, just get a divorce. CLUELESS..thats why we are so angry because she can treat u like shit and if u file for divorce the man loses everthing, kids, money, house…everything, so yeah….BITCH

      1. John

        OH MY GOD YES!! Thank God I don’t live in a state that has guaranteed alimony like that shit hole California

  10. Az

    My wife is a bitch. She is Japanese and she always thinks she has to be right about opinion in her eyes seems to me to be invalid. Our sex life terrible, I have asked her numerous times to wax her pubic area and she flatly refuses I went about it really nicely every time, saying that it would enhance our intimacy, but she said she wasn’t interested..She will not let me try anything new with her and acts as though sex is a chore. When I come home from work and approach her to give her a kiss and a hug she usually pushes me away and says that she is tired. If I do happen to be fortunate enough to gain a kiss out of her, most of the time it is like kissing a corpse. We have kids and I have stayed with her because of that, but I am starting to get fed up with this shit. Life is short..too short to be married to a bitch..

    1. jutt - uk

      yeah i was stupid enough to marry a japanese bitch as well. if i did nt have a son with her, i would honestly stab the c**t in the face. i can f**k her when i want, but i dont want to. i cant wait to divorce the bitch. i was a very rich man in my 30s, so i have spent last 4 years smoking off my money on heroin, just so she dont get it + it will make her look bad being married to a junkie!!!

      dont marry japanese women, they turn nasty as soon as you marry them, unless you are a pussy and do everything you are told, like i have noticed with most of the english men married to them.

      1. Tony

        Knew a guy who was married to a Jap she hated him being stationed overseas with the army, In the end they divorced but when he moved on with a new Woman and had a kid out came the accusations of violent and sexual abuse, He was old and frale by now had tried to commit suicide over all the stress of it,He near ended up in jail & lost 200k in court costs & his life savings were all handed over to her and his Children for a settlement, He went to the grave a broken and very angry man ?

        1. Matthew Fournier

          Lmao, where are you people finding these disrespectful Japanese women? Most Japanese women won’t talk back to the man, won’t even try because they are raised different than english people. I think you guys are full of sh-t.

  11. R

    Men looking at this site to to take a real look at the women they have been with. Some women are true to their spouses in good times and bad and then accused of things that they didn’t do. Maybe that is why they are depressed. Some women truly love their husbands. I am not saying that there are women and or men out there that are not faithful or are just out for the other ones money.
    I can tell you that that is not my case.

  12. mikey

    My wife is a bitch. She lies to me about the dumbest shit. I am working out of town 40+ hours a week, and I am also taking three online classes. Not to mention I come home on the weekends, hang out with her and our two boys. Sometimes I have to work weekends. I have all the proof that this is what I am doing, and she tells me that I am seeing someone else which is total bullshit. Not only does she lie to me about the dumbest shit, but she is also extremely verbally abusive to me and our kids, and when we fight it is always my fault. I am always the first one to say sorry even if it is not my fault. Nothing that I do for her is good enough. I am always trying to find out what I can do to make her happy and that is nothing. Sometimes I wish she would just go away. I do not want anything bad to happen to her, I just want her to go away. The human body can only take so much stress before we explode, and my fuse is getting really short. What should I do? Should I just accept the fact that she is an insecure bitch or should I walk away? If I walk away, i do not want to lose my two boys because they are the world to me and to take them away from me would be like ripping my heart out of my chest. Any suggestions?

    1. Maybe your wife

      What to do? Try being home more/ not so busy? Pay her some positive attention? Act like she matters more than work and more work? I doubt she married you just to be by herself all the time, looking at your back going off to work or hunched over a computer.

      1. dystonicrxn

        apparently you did not read the guys comment. I am so absolutely physically ill from women who state if my man just did a, b, c … then I would be nicer, want sex more, etc. What a crock of shit.
        How about be amiable/nice, compromise, communicate lovelingly, etc BECAUSE It IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO. it is the mature thing to do.

    2. Ken

      Ask her why she is so insecure. Don’t accept,”There is no reason for, or it doesn’t make sense that.” you need a reason. Women need to feel secure. and being gone all the time will not fulfill that. Women are emotional beings, men use logic. More time at home might alleviate this.

    3. Mark

      I hear your cry man/men. I am in the same boat. I don’t know what to do myself. It is very frustrating to not have a light at the end of the tunnel. I just got my ass handed to me again and again. My instinct tells me that I need to man up to a plan and prepare for a divorce. I have children and really have tired to stay for their sakes. I am trying to let the sh*t roll off my back and not bother me so I can convince her to sell our house and other properties we own together. I dream of the day when everything I can lose is in safe keeping and I can slam her with divorce papers. I meet a guy a few weeks ago that went through the same marriage hell i am going through. After 30 years of a hellish marriage he took his then wife to the Florida Keys and one nite on the beach he gave her the divorce papers. I should of been laughing but instead I started to cry. I was SO SO envious of this guy. However, he lost everything. He lives with a friend that is helping him get back on his feet. He told me it was the BEST decision he ever made. the worldly things mean nothing as much as being his own man again.His son no longer speaks to him. However, he is very close to his daughter. I asked him if we could do lunch sometime and was very understanding. I pray for every man that goes through this type of Hell. I saw the sports guy belt his wife on the elevator in Las Vegas. I am NOT saying that was a right thing to do. What makes me made is that everyone assumes that she was sweet and innocent. Every guy reading this web site knows how a woman can push men past their limits. Its my innerself that screams at me during a bad fight to LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE, before I am pushed to far. I put a lot of thinking miles on my Jeep Wrangler. I hope what I say helps someone.

      1. Bill

        I know what you mean! My life is a nightmare now! The first year was great, now she is jabba the hut. Bitch takes out exhaustion stress by sinking herself further into stressful mires of argument! No facts or answers matter… she left me at the house today to let a repair guy come, got the old dudes number in front of me, sabotaged the whole day and came home and kept asking me the same thing i told her was fixed at 1 o clock. I said i dont know anything about plumbing woman dont ask me again! That was at 1 pm.. she went to bed at 11 tryin to cry so hard about me getting mad abt her assaulting me with plumbing questions all f**king day. She left me to take care of this remember! walks around with one hand clubbed tightly popping Adderall asking the same question ALL F*CK ING DAY BRUH….. over and over!

        We have talked seriously abt it everyday for 2 years! She has put in so much unnecessary work into this purposefully cruel and, for her, undeniably enjoyable nightmare.

        Told her today find a drug or I’m gone and this time it’s not even though it will be so good loving and living on the west coast w my love of my life…. it’ll be a lifetime nightmare!

        She’s a nurse and I asked her “would you stop your hurricane of questions if I were a heart patient?” Bitch had the nerve to say “of course I would do whatever….”

        I said biiiiitch…. (jk)

        I said u don’t wanna go any further cuz I know you would kill me dead with your logic games! I would have a restraining order against u if I were a heart patient for survival. And I CAN’T be any healthier or happier than some heart patient peacefully awaiting death out a cold and placid window.

        Even told her I’d set her up with the plumber and leave for the day if she wants to spend a whole day asking if it is fixed and then acting like a pitiful poor abused chickadee.

        Your wife and my girlfriend sound similar. I know the endless logic games she plays with me can make you wanna tell everything, I feel like I’ve just found out I’m not crazy!

        My god, there is hope!

    4. Tom

      All I’m reading here in these hundreds of posts is that your wife/partner has no respect for you men. They’re fucking around, arguing, being rude, self entitled and demanding. Just because they have a c…t they think they own you. It’s disgusting. You work long hours at your job and around the home, look after your children and try to do your best and they just spit in your face. And the worst, fucking around and I’ve heard of women fucking other men in the marital bed. A lot of women aren’t precious, they’re not your mother, they’re just nasty shits who need to be stood up to. Is your wife or partner one of them? How has it come to this? You don’t have to take it - reclaim your manhood for f…ks sake!

  13. strategize

    Second marriage. Nothing I do is good enough. I spent 800 dollars for one night a nice hotel, spa, pool, food, and an adjoining room for the kids and while I was there my wife was complaining about how I never do anything nice for her and we never do anything alone. I reminded her it was what she wanted to do. I nearly got my ass blown up overseas and I spent 10k on a family vacation and she did nothing but complain and argue with me the whole time. I told her I was 20K in credit card debt and she still wanted hard wood floors and other upgrades in the house. I nearly lost my life to neuro surgery and she continued to nit pick and complain. That drove me nuts. I don’t know what I would have done if it weren’t for the medication. Now I’m a horrible father and the list goes on. I’ve been here before. So here’s my suggestion. It’s not easy and it takes time. You need to sleep with you enemy. You need to develop your situation and gain the advantage. As the man in a relationship you are automatically set at a disadvantage. You need to talk with a male lawyer (one that is sympathetic to your cause) and spill the beans about everything good and bad. This is the only way you can develop a good game plan to beat the system that screws a man for being a man. Don’t think you can avoid your responsibilities because that’s not what I’m saying. If the spouse is awarded a child you will have to pay child support. But let’s say your spouse called the cops once and had you arrested for being drunk and now you have a domestic violence charge. Your lawyer and you can kill that by getting getting paperwork done in advance without your spouse knowing. That kinda shit kills them in court. And you get to keep your privileges. So now when my wife throws out a bunch of bull I just say, “ok”, “sure”, “right”, or I just say “no” and “I don’t wanna talk about it.” Cause, I am developing my game plan. When I am ready I will say, “you need to change or I am getting a divorce.” You might wanna do the same.

    1. Julie

      Coming from a woman, thats actually great advice and I hope it goes well for you sincerely.
      As an added point, there are law offices that specialize in men only divorce issues and support.

      I’m not married and would never want to be! But its worse for you guys! WTF were you men thinking when you said “I do”?
      OMG! Good luck to you all, seriously!
      And-for any women/wives reading my comments getting pissed off at me-up yours!

    2. Jake

      I recall exactly: leading up to the “I do”, I thought, “Well, I could always divorce her if it doesn’t work out.” Once I said “I do”, I thought, “SHIT. Oh well, here goes nothing.”

    3. mierda

      I love it dude! Good advice. I am doing the same. I decided to stick with this emotionless cunt until about a year from now when our other house that is being rented by tenants becomes available. Then I am outta here.

  14. mark

    Damn, surprising to read that there are others out there with similar problems as mine in regards to a spouse. reading these other comments lets me know I am not alone in this. I seriously want to divorce my wife. No doubt at all, but we have a child.

  15. Sam

    I hate my f**king wife’s he a utter cow, we were living in England everything going ok until she start to bitch non stop about being far from her folks. So I sold my house and cars left my family and moved to Brasil. The day we arrived she turned into c**twife we only been here 4 month and I hate her more than you can imagine everything’s my fault I mean everything. I’m giving her one more month then I’m off!!!

  16. CRB

    Hey Guys,

    I’ve been in the same boat for 17 Years. I knew she was a bit of a bitch when we got married but hoped being with a nice guy who knew how to show emotion, love, tenderness and responsibility then she would soften up. Did not happen. In fact she became dependent on me emotionally and has continued to get worse. She’s completely unable to reciprocate feelings of love or compassion. If anything she resents me. Well finally we are getting divorced and its a huge pressure of my chest already. I actually know there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s still stressful dealing with her but at least I don’t feel like I am drowning anymore. At the least stop giving a shit about her emotions… you’re not going to make her happy. You know you’ve tried. You know you’ve broken yourself for her. It’s time to focus on you. I’m not talking about cheating because that’s not healthy for you either. I’m say unburden yourself. You’ve met your obligation. Quit killing yourself. Go home, stay calm, take care of your kids, take care of yourself, do something you enjoy and ignore her. The more you show her that her antics no longer work she may change or she may want out. Start a written log. Record her tantrums. Take pictures of the dirty house. If it comes to a divorce then you have what you need to help you the most. These type of woman are really good at hiding behind a facade and will do anything to protect that and avoid embarrassment. You’re the calm on, the centered one. Whats the worst that could happen? In these situations, divorce IS a GOOD thing. There is someone else out there for you right now. I’ve already found her and it’s the best thing to happen to me since the birth of my youngest child. Just know you’re not alone.


  17. Wow

    Today my wife asked me to get the sugar out of the pantry for her, I do exactly that. When I hand her the sugar she gives me the “go screw you’re self” look. She says how often do I use sugar? And I follow with I have no clue but you asked for it. She then proceeds to be pissed off at me the rest of the night because apparently I’m supposed to know when she wants sugar she actually wants Splenda. I still don’t get it WTF

    1. J Perc

      I went thru that…once. After that it was like I didn’t hear her. Worked great for 10 years and she finally filed for divorce. What a relief. Living alone over 20 in peace has been a blessing and cheap! lol!

  18. Sick_&_Tired

    Am sick & tired…over and over again. We live in a world where I feel like God is punishing me because my marriage is a NIGHTMARE!! I LOVED being boyfriend/girlfriend,…but marriage has destroyed my relationship.
    I despise the day i said “i do” I regret every second of it…
    Then I also fee like the world is punishing me if I get a divorce! As a Man, I stand to lose EVERYTHING! Especially since I live in a “community state” FK!!!!!!!!

    Worst part of it all is she never works! I worked part time while full time in college, graduated now I work full time and she still can’t lift a finger and at least pay for Her damn cell phone! Nothing! It is pure misery… Marriage cost $20/license + $50/cheap ceremony…..divorce is like $600 minimum!!! WTF, WTF, WTF!

  19. Nice_guys_realize_last

    Hey guys, I can see so many men here complaining about their wives for so many reasons that guys constantly complain about.

    I wanted to write my whole life story here but I realize that would be too painful for me so let me just say it isn’t always about what your wife does but more about why she does that can kill you.

    I can only tell you that with my wife I found somebody who was there to smile at me and be nice to me so long as I had my family’s backing before getting married.
    I told her I want to wait for this reason alone because I didn’t want her to see hard times with me till I was done with my prof grad degree but she couldn’t wait and promised me all sorts of shit to get her way.

    Now that we are exactly where I said we’d be, despite me still giving her everything she could need and more financially and non-financially, I realized that the woman I loved was never really in love with me as much as she was in love with the way I could do things for her.

    After marriage she has put in zero efforts for me in the bedroom or out. In my entire time together I can’t remember a time when she wanted to have sex and whenever I do, it’s always a situation where I am practically doing everything possible to make it happen and even then it is like fckn a dead fish because she is so damn uninvolved.

    When I suggest ideas to spend real time together I try to think of ways that we will actually spend real time to build on our crumbling relationship..not just throw more money at it..I am not cheap and have mentioned ideas to go for a nice dinner or at a cafe but her ideas of spending time outside is me following her for 2 hrs at a fckn woman’s store at the mall or at one of her friends (not even a common friend b/w us) stupid parties and indoors her idea of fun is to watch tv together which I think is brainless and vapid activity and cant count as together time. Dont get me wrong, I didn’t feel that way before and I won’t say I don’t enjoy tv myself a little. But one day I realized that is the only way she would spend time with me and then I started hating the idea of doing this with her because I am done playing her rules and pretending like the only way I can make her happy is by doing just what she wants without ever considering what makes me happy .
    She never wants to try anything new or interesting together. She doesn’t cook for me, keeps the place dirty as fk and basically finds time to do anything she wants but never wants to consider I may need the friend she used to act like before we got married. I have even helped her visit her family abroad and everytime her stupid gfs make plans to get together out of state I never said shit about how it might not be good idea to spend money traveling for such dumb reasons.

    In return I always thought I could count on her showing me some affection or some feeling of what a tough time I am going through by myself. I don’t need much but I guess I did need her to show me she still loves me. Of course I have brought up these issues with her but she completely stonewalls me and is passive aggressive.
    She lies to other people and says fake shit that is unbelievable bullshit to me and sometimes I feel like I couldn’t ever respect someone like and would never willingly have married her knowing this about her that but lately she has even tried to lie to me about petty shit which she knows Im going to find out about anyway and basically must think I’m the biggest sucker in her life.
    Her mother is a damn fool because she spends every day calling her up,reinforcing her ego telling her she could do no wrong which is even worse because any sort of connection we can make in our life is completely overshadowed by her mother’s constant presence.
    Whenever I try to challenge that it might not be a good idea to talk to your mom EVERY SINGLE DAY, I am looked at like I just suggested the most unholiest thing ever.

    Fuck it because basically my hard times are almost over and in a very funny way I think despite my feeling so alone and hurt right now God or nature or Life has shown me that I mean more than what this person has shown me to be worth in her eyes.
    My bad times are almost over and thankfully now when I am in my professional degree career, I won’t be fulfilling my dreams of sharing all my hard work efforts on someone who I loved like a fool. Instead I will spend my success on the person who was always with me during hard times and that was always just ME and myself, alone.

    I am open to meeting someone new some day but I don’t think I will ever trust a woman anymore after going thru this bs promise of ‘for better or for worse’ that I really bought into, hook line and sinker.

    I do not know who wrote traditional wedding vows but I do know it wasn’t a woman that’s for sure!

    If I ever miss someone like her in the future, I will save myself the years of misery and go for the bulls eye by just paying someone for one night because at least that is a lot more honest representation of my relationship I’ve had till now. Actually at least that person will act involved at least so I will have to tell her just be a little more lazy I will pay you more for it.

    There are famous proverb about relationships in my culture that I read for the first time the other day and I found it so true and ironic to read now. Were that I had read them many years ago maybe I wouldn’t be writing them here for you today.
    I will end with these PURE TRUTHS.

    “4 different types of relationships will reveal their true inner nature to you in your life”

    In sickness, your family

    In problems, your friends

    In old age, your children

    and finally,

    In poverty/hard times, your wife

    1. wife=bitch

      I ignored the warning signs too. It turns out a dumb bitch will always be a dumb bitch. Save yourself!

      1. Jack

        I’m in this relationship for more than 10 years now, it’s like we married, she is very manipulating and says she loves me very much, but every time she gets a chance she degrades me into the ground with her mind games. She’s smoking marihuana, 420 , dope, what ever you want to call it, and she says she needs it to de-stress. I hate the shit ! She’s got a better paying job than me and i cant just leave. I’m busy studying to get financially independent. I call it mental abuse ! F**k the bitch! I will get out of this !

        1. Nice_guys_realize_last

          I can understand your situation as I am somewhat similar as well in mine.
          But I hope you realize that the compromise you are putting up with is for a price and it is only up to you to decide how much of a price you are willing to pay.

          Recently, I asked myself the same question about my situation and decided that whatever I am afraid of is likely something that isn’t going to be as bad as I may imagine it and leaving her may be hard after being together so long but if I truly am on a path, I will be on that path regardless of my circumstances better or not.
          If I clear away the noise, it may well help me and if it still doesn’t then I’ll ultimately realize I was not motivated enough to achieve my goals-basically it was my fault not hers.
          On the other hand, if I choose to live with these circumstances, not only do I know the situation is unlikely to be helpful, I may never get over a future potential loss of achieving any goals because I will always hold that other person in my life responsible for it.
          It will be harder to move on from such a loss in my opinion.
          In short, it is easier to accept mistakes you made for yourself and move on then it is to have other factors because we humans find ways to blame others.

          Another personal realization I had is that ultimately, times will change as they always do for better or for worse and I will not be with her anymore and when that time comes, will I be able to forgive myself for having put up with so much of the bs that I currently put up with? For any point I am at then, will it have been worth it to have gone through this now?

          I hope my questions lead you to start asking some important questions yourself.

          All obstacles are hard to overcome but when I look back at my life I want to know I did

    2. mierda

      Dude I am so happy you are leaving her. You wrote a very touching story. Let’s meet for a beer! I feel the same way. I am realizing I am not a worthless scumbag as I am called on an almost weekly basis. You need to look out for you. Forget the bitch.
      Funny shit about asking the prostitute to act a little more lazy. LOL LOL

      1. J Perc

        Prostitutes…gotta love a woman that earns the money you give her. Much cheaper than supporting a deadbeat mooch that only knows how to spend money and complain. Better to pay em, lay em but don’t display em…lol

  20. Nice_guys_realize_last

    Here’s an update for today in my life:

    I had a little time off today and was watching a comedy stand up special after a long time and it was so funny, I thought to myself, my wife & I never get a chance to laugh anymore over anything so let me leave it now and watch it with her later. So like a fool I actually paused the program 10 mins in (Jim Jeffries stand up on HBO if you care).

    Sure enough, later today she comes asking me about some new expensive sunglasses she bought for herself (after I spent 3 entire days helping her find her old pair that she lost due to her own absentmindedness) and I did something truly idiotic.

    I actually gave a shit.

    You see she had gone to the mall checked out a pair she liked and 3 store personnel (women) there told her whatever crap she needed to hear to buy them and came back feeling unsure about it and asked me.

    Typical guy response= sure honey looks great

    My idiotic response= well, they are nice shades and they don’t do anything -ve for you, ie look cool but they don’t do as much for your look like the previous pair you had. They don’t enhance your look and Im guessing since you just spent $200 you’d want that as a factor besides UV protection right? IMHO they were just a tad bit big for her face.

    Ok so why do I care enough, why couldn’t I just tell her something ignorant and set her on her ignorant path?

    She goes right back to the mall because of course she needs to, and after talking to some other shift workers there (incl another guy) she gets actual feedback that is pretty much what I they were a little too big for her face.
    She gets an even nicer and more expensive Prada pair and comes back, and of course, I am there for her to tell her honestly, that they are actually nice and how sexy she looks and all that jazz.

    Skip fwd to dinner time and she was putting on a tv show when I mention I saved this stand up to watch with her and if it’s cool let’s check it out together and share a few laughs.
    She very cool-ly replies, “yeah that sounds interesting, let’s do it tomorrow cuz I was going to watch xyz tonight.”

    Now really, I know that is a normal response which lead me to believe that in this situation the problem is all mine, I’m the one who gives TOO MUCH of a shit here and she is just being her typical self.

    But these things happen enough for me to question whether I’m ok with it because like earlier today, there have been countless times when I have wanted to do other things but helped her out in small & big ways and I continue to find out more and more that I shouldn’t ever hold expectations of her doing something for me outside of her own wants.

    I could care less about the show now and NO will not be watching it tomorrow with her because I may not be able to help myself from helping her out time to time but I am not comfy with taking pity handouts that are obviously less than genuine.

    I told her today, that I think people who make long relationships last have an incredible resolve and are both so strongly committed to that ideal that everything else in the world becomes secondary. And those who progress onwards to have children & become good parents must by necessity be even more blind to the world outside just so they can focus all their care & attention inwards and function as a proper loving family unit.

    But after trying for so long, I have personally decided that the tired cliche of successful old man with young innocent eager to please bitches lapping at his legs is sadly a functional and timeless cliche for a reason.
    I do not discount real partnerships that work brilliantly and they have my respect but for myself I think I’m ready to take a break from the illusions that have been so clearly shattered for me at present.

    I wanted to add a very relevant quote here to finish my entry and after doing a quick search online for it, turns out the author will be having a birthday in 2 days (April 4- Maya Angelou) so perhaps even more fitting to tribute this brilliant African American Poet who penned the following significant words:

    People will forget what you said
    People will forget what you did
    But people will never forget how you made them feel.

  21. JC

    Do you want to know why your wife is a bitch? Because she is a female. Most females are bitches and basically trash these days. Blame feminism.

    1. Graystar

      My wife suffers from depression too…but what does that get you knowing that??…it gets you constant guilt trips….constant….telling you did things you did not and then being told that I just do not remember the things I do and then the old walk away and slam the door….and then her grown kids enter the equation…living on our farm cause they are losers and have no where to go and my wife wants them here…slobs and pigs and users….and she will not say sh## to them cause that might make them not like her….and besides she knows they will argue back and get just as angry as her….well, I don’t want to get angry…I don’t want to argue…I am basically a peace loving person…so I try not to let it bother me and move on with my day…but I still fuc@@@ hate it….back to my man cave……..
      As a 67 yo male who has know many women, I can tell you that they all pretty much bitches. Some much more than others. Feminism is definitely one of the main reasons. Women take being feminine as a weakness these days. Look at how they dress compared to how they dressed before “feminism”. Now, most of the time they choose to dress as a man. no more sexy nightgowns. They are considered to be men”s fetishes. No more wearing dresses….these are saved for weddings and the like. Jeans and a men’s flannel shirt for day wear …an old pair of cotton pj’s or if your lucky, football jersey to bed and this is supposed to turn us on….and if we don’t jump at sex when they are wearing this (when they want it) and have treated us like shit all day long, WE have a problem. WE need help. WE need to take viagra….the TV evens tells us so. WE are abnormal. Most women are more masculine then most men I know. Two of my wives 3 girls are married to other women. I am very liberal and this is ok with me but I still believe it is a sign of the times….lesbians are considered sexy and homo men are pretty much looked on as pervs. by society as a whole I believe. I’m getting sideways here but you get my drift….
      I am tired of saying yes to everything just to keep the peace. That is the way it is. I gave up everything I had as a lifelong single man to marry this bitch and buy the farm with her and now I am really trapped….hiding in my man cave as much as I can get away with it and recalling the days when I could do as I pleased and taking that for granted.
      All you young single men - STAY that way! As soon as u marry, u will turn old quick. You will give up eventually. At the very least do NOT have kids until you are sure you can stay with her and your kids. There are a few good women out there….there are those who have no desire to change you….they are rare but they are there…keep looking…you’ll know…I found some but they were not exciting for some reason I guess….stupid.
      Good thing I’m a Buddhist. 🙂

  22. benno

    my wife is the ultimate bitch who sucks the happiness out of you and is only truely happy when she has sucked the life out of you

  23. Fed up

    Stay away from Brazilian women, they are the selfish, mature and spoiled of them all. My wife is always demanding and when she doesn’t get her little way she pouts and complains until no end. She also has obsessive compulsive disorder and will fix-at on the smallest and strangest things…
    Now I am stuck living in another country and with a kid with her……what a mistake, I wish I could go back to myself 8 years ago and tell that idiot to run and never look back.

    1. jp

      Unfortunately, with common law marriage in most states, if you go around saying you’re husband and wife filing, taxes together, etc, you have to go to court and get a real divorce.

    2. mierda

      Stay away from Russian women too!! Lazy, selfish, spoiled, pouty, mother-dependent children who never grow up from being spoiled by their mothers.

    3. Chooch

      F&$k all the bitches! I’m soo sick of hearing everyone’s boo-hoo stories about their marriages or relationships. You know what, grow a set and drop the c**t. I know it’s not easy!!! I’ve been there…with kids. But since I found my balls 7 years ago and took my own advice, I’m doing phenomenally, my children are now with me full-time, and the dizzy bitch is completely out of the picture. Trust me, it sounds impossible but there are a lot of women out there.

  24. Tom

    never get legally married. never. marriage is for suckers. if you think that you’ve found your true love, then live as husband and wife. just don’t get legally married.

  25. John

    I hate my wife too. It almost feels good just to come on here and say it. no idea what to do, been married 6years, 1 great daughter. I can’t conceive of undoing everything that we’ve built together. She has 100k in savings (our money), I have zero but I do pay for Audi every month as well as the mortgage , etc. I’d wind up pretty much homeless if I left. Moved out for 1 month but moved back. No idea, miserable with her 75% of the time, 25% it’s like were just room mates. Sex maybe 4 times per year

  26. bob

    my Wife (soon to be ex) cant understand normal logic. I agree with others that say never get married (unless she make the same amount of $ or more). You get royally f**ked by the courts. If I had it to do over, I would live with her but not tie the knot. I agree with the community property, but having to fork over my retirement fund sucks. But the real kicker is the freaking spousal support. She works and always has, we dont have kids, yet I am expected to fork over my hard earned cash for the next several years. she is living on her own and f**king whoever and I have to keep paying her bills. It would be different if she stayed home to raise the kids or helped put me through but she did not. So why do the courts think I should give her my paycheck.

  27. nice_guys_realize_last

    It’s a messed up system here in the US…HALF!.just watch Eddie Murphy Raw to get a good idea of it..but truly laws or not, women have this sense of entitlement due to the feminine culture of pouring BS baloney complements over each other with no force to vet for the truth.
    Not one woman in her group would really like to tell the other like it is although it would be far better in the long run for both parties. This is why men are seen as cruel or insensitive because we work against a system that is irrational and completely unpredictable and also why most men in happy marriages learned early on to never speak their mind much the way they would to a best friend.
    This is hypocrisy traded for the convenience of companionship & sex at its best.
    The real results are that not only do women screw over the men they are involved with but very often will complement their own girlfriends in public only to go home and bitch out someone who is supposed to be a lifelong friend etc.

  28. Pete

    Hate my bitch wife. Let me count the ways.
    1. She is a life killjoy - no happiness at anything.
    2. Hasn’t laughed in 15 years
    3. Sucks in bed
    4. She has no personality.
    5. She’s a bitch.
    6. She can’t make any friends.
    7. Doesn’t work but can’t keep the house clean
    8. Boring as hell.
    9. This list could go to infinity.

    I so wish that I could build a time machine and go back, shake the shit out of myself, break my own leg and miss the wedding, dump that bitch and get my life back.

    I am dropping divorce papers this week.

    1. josh

      first of all divorce should not be your first option. yes my wife is a bitch from time to time but we are still growing together. i have been married for 5 years and i would neer think of leaving her because i know most probems (other than cheating and other malicious acts) it is just two people learning to be together. even people who have been together for 20 plus years admit that it takes work. stop being lazy you will never find love being lazy and a procratinator

  29. Jack Ryan

    WOW! My wife is depressed which makes her a complete beatch. She won’t undress in front of me cuz it makes me want her. She won’t do anything that may “lead me on”. She criticizes everything and does not respect me. Sex is a forced proposition for her. I keep hanging in. Sucks being married to a crazy bitch. This is the worst of the for better or worse!

  30. Cha Cha

    File for divorce, then what? Meet another bitch? Exactly what we do. Remember when you met this one and you said you’d do anything for her? You might not, but she sure as hell does, and to her that was written in blood. Things change, relationships change, but she remembers all that little sweet talking you and she did and she will take that to divorce court, and you’ll lose, and you’ll pay for her meanderings for the rest of your life, because courts like to stay in the 19th century when women weren’t allowed outside the home except to take the damn washing down to the river, so they have to be cared for by men because YOU said you would. Equality, huh? So you’ll discard this one, pay through the ass, then meet some sweet young thing and start the whole process over again, even though you swear you won’t. Of course you will. I’m better with the devil I know. Because 90% are self indulgent bitches and it really does become a game of how much you can take, and it’ll be that way with the next one. You find ways to let off steam. She’s got her friends to commiserate with. You have no friends because she drove them off, so you find things to keep those idle hands busy, you keep your secret room in your mind locked away from her and her “no secrets between us” pillow talk, and you don’t fear death because life turns churns out the same crap over and over, doesn’t it.

  31. Al

    I work my A** off and cook, clean up her dog crapping on floor, the dog that she got without telling me, knowing that I hate dogs. I get up every day at 5am work to death, she lays in bed, and never pays attention to me and b**ches that I’m lazy and selfish. If we didn’t have a child I’d be gone.

  32. Henk

    Hate my bitch wife. Let me count the ways.
    1. She is a life killjoy – no happiness at anything.
    2. Hasn’t laughed in 15 years
    3. Sucks in bed
    4. She has no personality.
    5. She’s a bitch.
    6. She can’t make any friends.
    7. Doesn’t work but can’t keep the house clean
    8. Boring as hell.
    9. This list could go to infinity.

    1. J Perc

      The list can only go on if you do. It’s your life and only you can make it better. Never rely on somebody to make you happy, never allow somebody to make you miserable. I’m 63 and I’m telling you from experience. Good luck

      1. Big Surfi

        Good words to live by…
        The trick is is to stick by them during the tug of war with your supposed best friend while they’re putting you through hell! My wife is my best friend and then my worst enemy in life…and just as quick as I was able to put it into a sentence. I call her “Psycho” but maybe love makes us all crazy.
        PS I call her a crazy bitch sometimes too…when it gets to be too much.
        Luck and love are a lot alike…

  33. Screwed_in_Dallas

    Just found out, after Mother’s Day this year, the wife has been carrying on virtual affairs for the last four years with at least 3 of her ex boyfriends. Found emails, phone logs, and worse yet, sext messages and nude pictures of her masturbating she sent to them. Logs show she was speaking with at least 2 of them on a daily basis for hours while I was hard at work supporting her and our two daughters lifestyle. She was having phone sex with them in our bed while I was traveling for the job. Being married for 17 years it was a real blow. She blames it on me because she had a big void I was not filling. We’ve since done counseling sessions to address the root issues, but only got worse as she was being confronted with her behavior. The counselor, a female, pointed out she was living as a needs based relationship that required validation by others to feel good, and that if she did not address, that any relationship was only guaranteed to end in disaster. What is clear is she has no remorse, and denies it saying its all my fault and i am responsible for her bad behavior. She says she didn’t have physical sex (I question) and it not really that big a deal. I have since told her I was divorcing her and had a attorney file. The kids are shell shocked and she is freaking out over their pain. She now is coming around saying we need to try harder, but its only because she doesn’t want to deal with the kids pain. I’ve called her out on her real motives as I do not trust her given the length and depth of her deception. I’ve told her we’ll go 60 days and if no change I am finalizing the divorce. State of Texas requires 60 days waiting period after filing for divorce so I have to play nice anyhow, but I am dropping her like a bad habit after 60 days. I am as bitter and angry like I’ve never been in my life so it will be quite a challenge. I am prepared to pay child and spouse support since she hasn’t worked since our first born. At this point, it is a small price to pay to get my life back and move on. Once divorced, I will be able to let go since I won’t be bound to her, and can move on with forgiveness to release all the hatred I feel right now. It will suck for a while, but look on it as a blessing to do things I’ve want in life versus catering to the irrational whims of someone who is not a true partner and doesn’t have my back. There are many fine women out there who got their act together looking for a good man. I just won’t be getting married or having children next time around. May you find peace on your path ahead my brothers.

    1. Terry

      You just told us that your wife is concerned with how your children are reacting to the news of their parents divorcing, but you question her motives. As a parent, I question your motives for bitching about her on a public forum instead of showing the same concern for your children. Perhaps your marriage wouldn’t be in the state that it is in if you didn’t think solely about yourself.

      1. Seriously tired

        Holy f**k are you that stupid? Read the guys comment again, put yourself in his shoes and try and reel off an intelligent response

  34. Yeppers

    Sigh I think I have the same problem. Wife asked today if I’ll go to a kids event. I said it’s been a long week and I’ll stay home, but you can go. She starts calling me names. Completely doesn’t understand what I do not cares. What a b*

  35. Terrence

    Been thinking of divorcing this woman for about a year now. celebrated …huh ? 25 years in 2012 . Dont know how I would afford it. wondering if I can afford NOT to. imagining the bad press of being the alcoholic husband who finally calls it quits to a cancer battlin bitch. couldnt those surgeons have cut out even a little of the bitch in her ? so, I could have a meal in peace on a day when I had to skip lunch in order get home to her bitchin , blamin, her way or no way ways

  36. Ryan

    There are moments i wished there was a Taliban rule here in America for just one week. to make these bitches learn the value of freedom.

  37. peter

    Enjoyed reading the comments, at least I know I am not the only one. I married a Thai, she is a bitch and will even argue with me when I agree with her, how crazy is that. She complains about everything I do, eg why are you watering the lawn now? why you wear that shirt i don’t like, why you no like my family ( a favourite). Once she did not talk for a day cos she did not like the way I cooked the rice, another time because I did not ask her if she was tired when she came home from work.
    She is the moodiest cow i ever met and her idea of happy is eat, sleep, eat, sleep that’s it. She has no ambition and works about 4 hours a week, the rest of the time I just try to avoid her moaning. She says she loves me but boy I would not like to know what it feels like to be hated by her.
    My plan is to disappear if she ever goes away for a while, she has made too many threats for me to do anything else. I live in Thailand with her, never marry a Thai, they are snakes

    1. J Perc

      I sure wouldn’t take her to the US. If you’re serious about skipping out you need to plan it carefully. Most Asian women I’ve ever known display the same attitude as your woman. Sweetest woman alive until they realize you’re not going to throw money at them like you’re a millionaire. Forget about what you own there…it’s not worth it. You can start by selling some things off. Tell her you plan to upgrade. That will get you some of your money back. Myself, I’d never allow another woman in my pocket again and that’s all they are interested in. Being hateful just means she’s unhappy with her life. No reason for you to be unhappy as well. I’m staying in the Philippines and the stories here are all the same. Better to pay for an good time and be done with it. Save your money..

  38. phil

    I think I have you all beat. I was 47 when I met her (37) and she and I discussed everything from death, marriage, church, religion, politics, sex…..I thought we had everything covered. I make a good living around $150,000 a year. So we had a child (the only awesome thing about the marriage). So this is what I do on a daily basis. Get up at 0615 for work and a 10 hour day, come home and the house is a mess. I set in and feed my child supper, clean the kitchen and clean the house, vacuum, and do the dishes, then read to my child ( good stuff ), bathe my the child and put the child down to sleep. Meanwhile, she is sitting talking on her IPOD to her friends, she never cleans up, does not go to church with me, is always scolding our 2 year old (like that makes sense, the child is 2!) and gives me sex once a month….holy crap! Here is an example…..I put our child down to sleep at 0915, the 2 year old didn’t go to bed until 1000pm and by that time I was pretty tired and had fallen to sleep. Around 2am when my wife came to bed, I asked her (quiet voice, politely), “hey honey, can you get my cell phone and bring it in to bed”, her response, “I am not your slave, you can get that phone yourself, don’t give me that shit!”……This happens at least twice a week with her. Guys I just don’t know what to do. Oh by the way, she will take off in the afternoon like she did yesterday, the 22nd of June and not tell me and go to the wine bar. No calls, no nothing, and then she comes stumbling in around 11pm. I am sFcUrCeKwEeD!

    1. dystonicrxn

      Sounds like your wife might be an alcoholic? just a thought. I started going to Al-anon which has really helped me become more of the man I have always wanted.

      My wife leaves a mess in the kitchen, doesn’t do any grocery shopping with little to no food in the kitchen, doesn’t do any laundry … I just leave everything where it is. I will buy the occasional food staple but only a little, wash a few things for me i need to work, etc.

      Sooner or later the wife will smarten up, before I just enabled her behavior.

  39. D.R.

    OK, I haven’t read all the post above. Some of the men no damn wonder your wife is a bitch. Tell me I deserve this treatment and I will shut up oh yea like my wife tells me. I gave up all my friends and family for her. Now, my kids can’t stay at any of my family, and my family has not done anything any worse then hers. I work my schedule, and most of the time I don’t work any over time so I can be at home like she wants, but then she wants to go blow money then it is up to me to fix it. She works too. No matter what I do she talks to me like I am a dog. We go out drinking and she let’s men grind on her, and I am a dick for saying anything. I don’t”t think she does anything more, buy that shows me no respect at all for me. Her family can be mean to her she comes home and takes it every bit out on me. We fight everyday doesn’t matter who is their like our 4 and 6 lil girls. I ask her to talk to someone about it and she gives me the go f**k yourself look. To be honest only time we get along is in the bed. I don’t want my kids to think it is OK to yell at each other, but I don’t want her telling them I left and turned my back on them. They r my world.

  40. Aundrea

    Hey all you men,

    I seriously hope most of you are just blowing off steam, but here’s some advice from the woman side - yes we get crazy sometimes! and you guys get cold and self indulgent sometimes - so do you want to work it out? if not, get a divorce - realize that 1/2 of what you’ve built over the years is hers, and move on. Your health and sanity are important.

    If you don’t want a divorce, then work it out. How? with such a crazy bitch? well, first, think back to the woman you fell in love with, and treat her how you treated her then. Bring her a flower for no reason, (or something else you know she’ll like) and don’t put any expectations on her, just do something nice, say something nice and walk away. Do this everyday, and live your life with as positive of an attitude as you can muster up. Do what she asks with a positive attitude. For most of you, your wife wants to love you but something has changed - she’s not feeling it - sweet little things will make her start to feel it again, and when she does, you’ll get the love back that you want. Small sweet things daily and being reliable - this is where you need to start. Once the love she once felt for you is back, you can start to discuss where things went wrong and try to avoid these problems in the future.

    Remember Men are Men, they are the pursuers, if you’ve stopped pursuing your wife just because you’ve married her, she isn’t feeling the love… So MEN - EVERY DAY, so something sweet. No need to blow hundreds of dollars, just something nice that you know she will like, that will make her smile when she thinks about you. spend the big bucks when things are good, not when they’re bad.

    1. mierda

      This is in response to Andrea or whoever the chick above was that is responding to the men.
      F YOU!!! What you fail to realize is MOST, not all men, are much more intelligent, rational, more intelligent beings than you crazy bitches. That’s a simple fact. I see it every day in my marriage and in the marriage of every other man I know. I am nice, intelligent, successful, caring, loving, romantic, etc. And you know what? My wife walks all over me because she is an emotional tyrant. When I call her out on her bullshit and in the rare event that she recognizes that, as usual, SHE is the one starting shit for NO REASON, her excuse is, “Well I am a woman. I can be that way”. You women are self indulgent, selfish, childish, and stupid!! Unfortunately for most of the men here, they got MARRIED, and then their wives decided they could act like selfish children and the guy would never leave them. Marriage is a mistake. Its like I say to my friends now. ” When you’re married its different. Women, in the course of marriage, tend to turn into assholes. If you were just dating, that behavior does not occur, because if it did, you simply kick the bitch out on the curb!! People don’t put up with that in a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.” Men, don’t get married. With ONE exception of out the friends I have or have had (about 10 really good friends in my life), ALL of the married men agree that if it wasn’t for their kids, they’d have left a long time ago. And I have GOOD FRIENDS. I am talking about respectful, successful gentleman who dote on their wives and kids. With ONE exception, all of the poor bastards are miserable because of their manipulative, selfish wives.

      1. AlphaBeta

        There was a religious guy that said that the women that act this way are possessed by a spirit. I thought and said the same thing to my wife because her behavior just didn’t make any sense.
        Self destructive to herself and when I kept the boat afloat tried to destroy what i was doing as well. I shut that shit down real quick, my feeling is that you can hurt yourself as much as you want but as soon as i feel a prick I turn into a lion and back you into your corner. Basically you should have checked this B from the jump, some of these women have to be dominated, you give them too much power too much freedom, they don’t know what to do with themselves much less lead. So they always resort to drama and kaos because they have no direction and the men that are supposed to be leading are emasculated by upbringing and the law. Break your chains and dominate… of course if you didn’t do this in the beginning its impossible to do it in the middle. Alpha women will also constantly challenge an Alpha male… an alpha male will not relent an inch, so the woman back up and play her role until she smells weakness and so will try to gain ground again… its a continuous battle but its necessary. When you give in all the time you will never get that ground you lost, up to the point where you retreat into hiding in you man cave or the attic or wherever you Betas run to. the fact is if the woman you marry is stronger than you are she will eventually dominate you. Yes she is a stupid bitch but you’re the bitches bitch.

      2. Lilith

        I confess; I started chuckling about three words into your comment and then guffawed the rest of the way, much the same as I how responded to the majority of the comments here. Either the majority of you men posting here are 22 or you’ve never reached the maturity equivalent to your actual ages. That aside, if you’re so much more intelligent than the average woman, could you demonstrate it for me? Please? Because, frankly, I’m not seeing it in your post. Your comprehension and utilization of grammar and the English language are mediocre at best and you fail to present your thoughts coherently. Further, you show no concept of the psychology of relationships, nor any experience with actual marriage. Based on the other comments that you have left on this forum, I’m rather convinced that you are describing yourself in the tirades you’ve posted for your fellow readers’ pleasure.
        On the (rather large) chance that you fail to grasp my meaning, I’ll break it down for you (and your fellow misogynists here). Seeing as how you are so cavalier towards women in this forum, I have to ask if all of you continually refer to your wives as bitches, c*nts, whores, etc.? If so, do you believe that your behavior truly has zero impact on your marriage? Further, if you do treat your wife in such a manner, are you aware that what you do is emotional abuse and that it is often more harmful than physical abuse? So many of you have mentioned that your wives are depressed. If they are clinically depressed and you are happily posting the comments that you have here, I’m left wondering how many of you aren’t, at least in part, responsible for your wives’ conditions. Did you know that emotional and mental abuse can lead to anorexia, bulimia, PTSD, excoriation, depression, suicidal thoughts and tendencies, and reactive abuse?
        If you do not speak to her using the language you have felt no qualms using here, I’d love to hear why. It seems rather foolish and naive to believe it would be because you respected her as you have clearly demonstrated that you do not. You also have not done so in consideration for your children (those that have them) as your comments relegate them to the ephemeral and are centered largely on your own selfish wants, needs, mandates, and tantrums. Marriage takes two and the mutual consideration to value each partner’s wants and needs. You want waxed p*ssy, how about a little manscaping?! You want a 4-course meal served on the dining room table with the good china and linen, how about you help a bit around the house?! You want a wife who doesn’t berate you about how you don’t listen or how you did something wrong, how about opening your ears and immediately paying attention?! You want a malleable woman who’s happy to spread her legs for you whenever you want it and enthusiastically participate in return, how about treating her with some respect and making her feel valued and appreciated?! More importantly, how about putting your own rampant needs aside and lasting for longer than an obligatory 4 seconds before you cum?! In other words, grow the hell up! You don’t kiss your mothers with those mouths, do you? Why would you treat your wife that way then? Lastly, if you read my comment and immediately go into a frothing rage about this ‘dumb bitch of a woman telling you what to do’, then I can only surmise that you and your 3″ limp dick are the problem and your wives would be better off without you. Who knows? They may just be writing their litany of complaints about their ‘fat-assed, lazy, lying, good-for-nothing, ED-suffering, premature ejaculating bastard of a husband’ on another page. *shrugs*

        1. Joe

          Thanks for setting us all straight. Obviously you must be a superior human being to the rest of us shallow uneducated misogynist mental weaklings.
          “Did you know that emotional and mental abuse can…” be dished out by a woman too? if you didn’t know that perhaps you should reread your own post.
          Examples of your abusive comments:
          * “’ve never reached the maturity …”
          * “..Your comprehension and utilization of grammar and the English language are mediocre at best and you fail to present your thoughts coherently…”
          * “..Further, you show no concept of the psychology of relationships…”
          *”… On the (rather large) chance that you fail to grasp my meaning, I’ll break it down for you (and your fellow misogynists here)….”
          *”… I can only surmise that you and your 3″ limp dick are the problem and your wives would be better off without you. …”
          Wow Lillith! those are just a few of the examples of the tirade you displayed.
          Your venomous words are toxic, palpable and demeaning proving that CRUELTY is an equal-opportunity offender.

  41. Mr. WTF

    You see, that’s the problem with most women:

    1) You act like selfish little spoiled brat children. WTF??? (Men want a real rational woman, not a spoiled brat).

    2) You think men MUST & HAVE to go bust their balls and break a limb every time so that “men can earn the women’s love”. WTF??? (Men don’t want to get married to trade money or commodities in exchange for “love”, especially since it is cheaper to just hire an escort to just have sex.)

    3) Then to top it off most all you women feel, think and believe beyond a doubt that just because you are women you are entitled and deserve to keep most of the men’s money and property when men finally realize their women is nothing but a controlling, manipulating, cold, selfish, emotional bully, unstable immature crazy azz bitch and decides to finally leave your crazy azz behind? WTF???

  42. Jerald

    My wife is moving out today. We are getting a separation but simultaneously filing for divorce. There is a 3 month waiting period. If after those three months I still think she is a f*cking crazy, sex withholding, life spoiling biotch, then I’m done. The thing is, we’ve been married for only two years and have only two dogs. Unfortunately, after losing my job we had to move in with my parents. It’s been hard but she’s been great. However, out of nowhere the resentment has been astonishing. She prefers everything above me and I’m just done for now. I love her but I will leave her as I have a full life ahead of me and no reason to waste it feeling like shit.

  43. Mrs

    With the way you guys are ranting here, I think life gave you your perfect matches! Hehe

    Actually, both men & women alike can be real nasty if they choose to be. That said, no man or woman deserves to be unhappy.
    Try all options before embarking on divorce. Good luck!

  44. Sam

    My wife and soon to be ex was and is a cheating, lying, manipulative, spoiled, heartless, BITCH. She lies like she is handing out candy. She has cheated numerous times and truly the only reason I have stayed this long is because we have 2 beautiful teenage girls I couldn’t abandon. They love their dad and I love them very much. They are my life. She spends money with no regard for saving any. Massages, expensive bras and panties and recently a closet with summer dresses someone else is removing. She really is a whore I guess. My daughters actually are aware of one affair she had with a cop. Pretty sad huh ?
    They don’t know about the others. Thank goodness they don’t.
    This is going to sound awful and mean but what I think is funny and just is, she has and is getting a new wrinkle on her face everyday. Her face has wrinkles like a 85 year old woman. She is 51. I think it’s probably a little karma to the face she is receiving. It’s hilarious. Many wrinkles and a crabby, bitchy, cheating little whore.
    I truly hate her. We both have good jobs, a great home in a great area and we are all healthy. I loved her more than anything, but she used me like a doormat, and didn’t respect me or our family and didn’t fight a lick to keep us together. She is going to be so sorry when we are divorced. Even her family agrees she has her head up her butt. I saw a couple of her lovers and the most recent is the CEO of Java City Coffee in Sacramento
    It’s funny to me now as he has the face of a dog. Oh yea, he is married and cheated on his wife. My parents used to tell me or have conversations about someone in my hometown who couldn’t behave or never cared about anyone but themselves. My parents would say they are simply ” not a good person” pretty simple I know. But it’s so true. My wife is not a good person.

  45. bob

    Bitch? I think the word here is “cunt.” Without the pussy not a single man would even talk to a cunt, muchless marry them.

  46. erik

    Jesusmotherf***ingc*ntchrist American women are the most unloving awful bitches in the world. .
    There are nicer people elsewhere, I am so sick and tired of my beautifully wife ,sorry for my foul language ,I never swear . Realy

  47. Jrb

    Unfortunately its “cheaper to keep her.” In my state they rarely give custody to the husband and they rape you with child support ($500 per kid in some cases I’ve seen). So, gonna have to suck it up and try not to kill her, I guess :/

    1. mierda

      In response to: The guy who said “We are all sleeping with the enemy. Im not getting divorced, so any suggestions on dealing with the daily bullshit?”

      Response: Yes, if you are not going to leave, which you should, get a good steady girlfriend for a discreet relationship. Good luck man.

  48. Jim

    Something tells me this “Team Writer” has never been married. A man should never call his wife a “bitch?” A woman should never call her husband something similar? What planet do you live on?

    If I had a dime for every time I’ve been called a “piece of sh*t,” just because I didn’t take out the garbage…

    1. erik

      A man should never call his wife a bitch?
      Are you kidding????
      What world do you live in. You are what you are … a bitch an as hole ,an unpleasant person
      A nice person, a difficult person a problematic person
      Bitch is not the worst word in the world they exist and that’s what you call it.
      I like the word nice such a simple word but so difficult for some b….. to comprehend.
      N. I. C. E. “.”

  49. jason

    My wife is a fkin bitch too. She admits it like she is proud of it. I fkin hate her. Nothing I do or say is ever good enough. I can never do anything to please her. She does nothing to show she loves or appreciated me. There have been at least two affairs that I know of. I respond by have flings to get even. This last time I had three flings just to get ahead of her so when she has her next fling I will be ahead of her still. I’ve filed for divorce before, but we reconciled. Most recently I thought we were going to file again, but she came dragging her ass back to me. We have lived in separate houses for two years now. I don’t understand why these bitches act this way. If ur gonna leave then get fk out and stay out bitch; why u gotta bring ur ass back. The last guy she wasted six months on, practically moved him in only to find out he was impotent LOL… Served that bitch right when she has a good looking healthy stud of a husband that would do anything for her laying in bed at home wanting nothing more than to bang her all night. I’ve gone alone to marriage counseling. I’ve read books on marriage and love. I adore our kids and have banked big money to be the provider. These bitches really are just crazy. They don’t know what they want or how to be happy. The only way to have a perfect marriage is to find two perfect people and have them get married. So yeah guys, tell them to hit the road or just hit their Snatch when they come crawling back to you. They always want to fck when u be man and do ur own thing and forget about them.

    1. bitchslapped

      Reading all your comments I feel solace in the reasoning that I am not alone in my suffering…

      I feel my situation is a bit more complicated than the rest and the usual……….my wife had a family (ex husband and 2 grown kids) she left them for whatever reasons - or that was the case when i started dating her at our mutual work place - she was in her early 30s at that time and quite a catch!! she had recently been divorced by her ex-husband and as they were over seas in south asia she lost custody of the children and decided to move back to north america.

      long story shortwe dated - grew close - sex was amazing - gave me superb oral several times over every single day we were dating!!! after we got hitched (married) 3 yrs later it all stopped - no more blow jobs… sex hardly ever or only if she wanted… and to top it all off - she had these crazy mood swings over the littlest of things.. small example - one time at a restaurant i forgot to put napkins on the table and she lost it !!! … didnt talk to me all the way home and showed me attitude… anyway we had our first kid a yr after we got married and she started dishing out the same attitude and aggressive shit with her. always pissed off at some thing or the other , I had resigned to the fact that she may just be mad at me forwhatever reasons but it just neever added up because im a lovable likeable guy - i spoke to her many times about her behavior with our girl and she always just brushed it off - there were so many occasions she would just leave her crying so much so that she would be unable to cry anymore and i just didnt intervene to see just how cruel and hasrsh this bitch ciould be!! ,.. well quite harsh so much so that it amazed me how God would make such a creation that could hurt her kids both mentally and physically just because she had and apparently has such a fucked up life - i keep wishing that these bitches would come with a used report like cars come with a used vehicle report and prospective customers are made aware of liens/damage etc.. why dont they have a filing system for these insane bitches from hell!!

      i stopped myself so many times when i found myself going to childrens aid society or the cops just to discuss what me and my kids were going through - everytime i stopped thinking of the consequences and of what would i do if our kids were taken from us…

      i printed out articles on emotional abuse and neglect as well as physical abuse and left them for her to read - we even disagreed on stuff to the point that we fought and most of the time we dont even fight as we hardly talk - only talk when she has to point out something i have dome wrong - i help out all the time as much as i can pay all the bills - she only does groceries and still gives me such a hard time!!

      we recently lost a child to anencephally - we hadnt planned on this child and she never wanted it either (our potential 3rd) she is so depressed that she refused to go for her regular check ups - is severely iron defficient and what not else went for her first ultra sound at 7.5 months and our baby got diagnosed with anencephally :((( we lost the child a few weeks after…

      in all this she also called the cops on me because i told her we need to come to an agreement on time sharing and expense distribution because her eldest daughter *20 yrs old now who she left and hadnt seen for 8 + yrs got admission in U of T and then her ex husband passes away 3 months ago which causes her to get excited asnd try and win bac the childrens love (children from her previous marriage - so yes her biological kids which she deserted in the past and now wants her perfect ending - all day she sits and texts her eldest - not paying attention to our little kids - then there are her sisters fueling the fire edging her on to go meet and be with her kids… so this is really a toll on our already messed up relationship - i am only in this and have stuck it out so far only because of our kids - and i told her that several times i told her that both she and her ex were selfish and thought about themselves rather than the kids… we almost filed for divorce with a mutual lawyer - had put in the request and all a yr ago but then she reconciled saying she would like to go for counselling ..

      after she called the cops i had had enough of her shit and told them more or less everythng that had been happening - they said its my fault as i never did anything to rememdy i said i tried but was scared to lose the kids…

      anyway - i have now had her diagnosed with depression and she is to take her medication soon .. been putting it off I just want out really as everyday i regret ever getting with this bitch from hell - and only wish i could have saved my kids and not her…

      1. mierda

        Dude I am sorry about the loss of your child. Your wife seems like satan. Leave her. Please. Leave ASAP for your own sanity.

  50. bitchslapped

    i want our kids to have a normal life and be a part of a 2 parent home - ill do what it takes and endure the worst to make this work and save my kids from her tyrannical rule…

  51. Russ

    You guys are all crazy… Thats why I took the time to find the woman of my dreams, courted her for seven years and then decided to ask her to marry me. And I love her more today than I ever have. Ten years and going strong. You people are psychos..

    1. Arun

      Come back her after five years and we will talk. Women don’t start eating their prey until they have them in the complete grasp with no way out. I have lived through the phase you are in.

    2. mierda

      Your marriage is a rare exception asshole. Most women are not cool like your wife. Most of the women are crazy bitches. Why would you call the men who have to endure their shit “psycho”?

  52. rob

    i was with my wife for 7 years married less than 12 months i work hard bought the house new cars every thing she wanted im 29 she 25 just tryed for a baby everything going good. next minute she got her period than im not happy im sleepin in the spare room, ok i thought for a night no 1 week try and cuddle her “f$5k off” i dont love you i want out 4 weeks later seperation paid her out look f$%k off look after the cat! im picken it up when i find a new house im like wtf wot a shock.
    i lernt a new lession in life woman = bitch! they dont care long as if they are happy now im depressed.

  53. Tim

    I’m 63 years old and losing the use of my legs due to spinal problems I can longer get any Doctors to help me with, and I have been sinse I was incontact with a mersa virus that started eating my spine. I was refered to the hospital my wife was an official at , and whom knew they had problems in their surgical siutes but told me it was an Ok hospital to get the spinal surgery I need ed at the time. My wife is a hospital admin. and is 60 . We have no children and are disaffected from our family’s. We only really have each other , there in lies the rub. My wife is a spoiled little,hah actually she porky as hell, bitch, She uses sex as a weapon to punish me for loving her , Her idea of a good marriage is one that evolves total servitude from the male and total acquiescence to all of her lies , her affairs , her f**k ups , and what ever else she can get away with. She has sex with me about once a year and usually gets drunk gets off three or four times and then passes out before I get anything other than whiffs of her boozy breath. She’s a f**in c*nt that deserves violence and mayhem in her spoiled life of f**king catered to privilege and indulgence. Her answer to that is I’m a taker and I don’t want to change , i’m to old to change, I afraid to change, I don’t feel any thing so how can I change. yata yata yataA f**king car wreck or maybe some mushrooms misidentified by her egotistical bitch self. maybe she could fall of of a tall building or get hit by a bus anything that’s painful and lets her linger long enough to have me come in and gloat over her f**king disability’s. I wish her all of the ill will I can muster at the moment. And it’s mostly because I’ve loved her all these years 37, to be exact. and all I have to show for love and devotion is her self centered sh*t ass attitude and her f**king frigidity. I hope she gets leprosy and rots away slowly, the f**k wad has throw away the meaning of our lives together so she can have her way , which when shes questioned as to what that is she reply’s ” I don’t know , your pressuring me”. She is rat puke ingested by roaches and sh*t out for bats to eat and then carp out on hog effluence ponds. And that is doing her a favor the ungrateful c*nt.

  54. Lisa neil

    I really, really can’t believe the ideas that some of you loser men go on and on about your wife’s.
    There has to be a reason why your wife is being a “bitch” and you now hate her so much.
    As in my case….
    I am now last on my husbands “to do list”
    He has only taken me out for dinner once in five years
    He thinks to buy me flowers is a waste of money
    The only time he wants to spend with me is “bedtime”
    If he’s not f$@?&ed every single night, then the fights on cause he thinks it’s his right to be able to do that every night
    He’s a mechanic and all I do is clean up the yard after him to only have him pull it out hours later
    He doesn’t take out the garbage
    I work p/t and everything I make goes back into the house, whereas everything he makes is his to spend
    I can’t talk to him about maybe spending a little time with me cause he can’t even commit to 5 hrs a week. Only bedtime.
    We only talk between the walls at night
    And he gets totally pissed off that I don’t go to bed at the same time as him
    He will not attend any family crap, Christmas, birthdays Ect….
    Threw his stupidity he miss places everything and I have to find it for him because if I don’t I get blamed.
    He will take his friends out for breakfast/lunch but he won’t even think about taking me out for coffee
    I can’t talk to him about how I’m feeling cause he just thinks I’m criticizing him and it turns into a fight
    Never have I been able to ask him to do anything for me but if a neighbour needs something fixed or a customer shows up, he jumps
    If we have no food in the house, he tells me to get a real job if I want to eat
    He lies to me
    He hides stuff from me
    He’s never bought me a gift for Christmas, valentines, birthdays, anniversaries or just for the hell of it.
    His friends tell him he’s lucky to have a good wife like me, but still he insists that I’m a “bitch” and I treat him so badly.
    I even make him breakfast in bed, do his laundry, look after our animals, do the yard work, make sure the house is clean, buy his clothes, and I’m now the plumber, electrician, painter, sorter of all things, cook, Ect….Ect… Cause he won’t do anything.

    So here’s my “bitch”
    He’s threatened to move out so many times and he’s even gone as far as to be renting another place and the only thing he has here is his project baby..a 86 grand national but he insists on staying here and making me missable telling me I’m a miserable bitch and I need mental help.
    So to all you wife haters, you better take a good long hard look at the way your treating THEM!!!!!!

    1. mierda

      Neil (girl above), send me a pic. If you are hot and sexy I will be your man. I am 38, educated, and fairly successful. And I will take you out for coffee, dinner, and bars every single week, several times. I make decent money (over $100k) and will provide a nice house for us with a pool, where you can swim and show off for me in your string bikini while I make some good Texas BBQ for us. I will take you out and You can be my eye candy as you will be dressed in a thong, heels, and short, tight dress. You are to go tan for me because I love a hot tan. And trim your bush. I want a clean, sweet vagina that is smooth and smells like roses. If you are younger than me, great! If older, if you are a hot sexy milf, that’s cool too because I like milfs! I’ll treat you like a princess and be polite to you, and I will buy you flowers for no reason. I will get you nice perfumes, maybe a Coach purse or some other nice gift once or twice a year, stuff like that. In return, I will expect you to work at least part time to contribute at least a little money. You are also to clean the house and cook nice meals. I like to eat hearty meals but as I want to live a long life you will mostly cook healthy but tasty meals. I want the house spotless if you are working just part time. And you must f**k me and give me a BJ everyday with great enthusiasm. Deal? If so, send me an email. By the way, if you are fat or ugly, please disregard my offer. Also, no matter what, I will never marry you. Been there, done that. Never again.

  55. Arun

    I used to be a nice person.
    Now I am a mysoginist nice person.
    So far the two women I have met in my life have had me fully convinced that women are worse than disease laden Mosquitos. Instead of booed they suck the life out of you and eat your soul. Manipulation and mind games they learn and practice as an art.

    Thay are not nice even to their own species. How many of you know two real women friends. My wife starts bitching about her best friends as soon as she gets a chance. She gets sad when her friends seem to be enjoying and get secretly happy if her friends seem to suffer. This is how all women are. They get happiness out of other people’s sufferings.

  56. Arun

    Here are some innocent things my wife has been doing for last 11 years of my marriage:
    a) as long as my kid was not going to school she got up at 11 and spent the rest of the day on Internet checking fashion and Facebook. She didn’t even care to brush my kids teeth because it was too much of work. I did that on weekends but could not on weekdays as I left early for work. (I am the only one who works. And I am perfectly ok with this if she just took care of kids)

    b) she gets really upset and remains upset if call up my parents or siblings. She wants me to talk to only her parents and siblings. I try calling my parents when I am at work but she checks the cell phone records and hounds me like a rabid dog if she finds out I have called my parents.

    C) she wants to shop every weekend. And if she wants to buy three dresses and I agree to buy two she gets really mad. If she wants three i have to buy three. When I tell her about savings she gets mad at me that I do not have savings.

    D) she doesn’t do anything I ask her to do like dropping a rent Check or making an appointment. If I remind her that she missed it she gets mad at me and tells me I should do it myself if I am so much worried.

    E) doesn’t care if kids are eating healthy or watching too much tv. She is busy on Facebook. I have to come back home after work and help out my kid with the homework.

    F) she always wants to buy gifts for her parents and sibling but if I gave something to my sibling I will be found in a pool of blood next morning or may be poisoned whatever is less work for her!!!

    I have two kids and love them to death. And I can not take away a normal family from them. So I am destined to suffer till the day I die.

  57. Shiney

    I so f**kin hatecmy stupid retarded wife. She needs constant support which a female at her age should be fond of doing on her own. Such as looking for a job or finding some activity to do in her leisure time. Even f***ing shopping is too much for her and don’t talk about cooking. The worst f***ing chef i tell you. Can’t stand this sh*t any longer.

  58. Rommell

    Been married 5 months and engaged for 8 years. Thats right, 8. I should have known it prior to marrying her that she is always such a miserable B**ch. Ever since back then whenever something stresses her out, she takes it out on everything. I take most of the brunt because I am always with her. Problems with school, problems with work. She has had five jobs in the last five years and she has not been happy with each one. Everytime she gets home or when I pick her up, I am cautious on how to talk to her because a simple question of ‘How was your day?’ Can turn into a bloodbath. I try to empathize with her issues and understand her problems(we both work as nurses so I know its not easy), but its hard to do when she feels that she has the right to be a bitch cause her floor is harder. I am starting to think its not her job but maybe her and that I need to find her an outlet for her frustrations, but she does not do Anything. She would lay in bed all day. No gym no going out. She blames her job for making her feel like this. Anyways just needed to vent. I do love her and am trying to find ways to improve our marriage.

  59. Markus

    Wow. Most of these posts describe my situation exactly.

    I’m married to a frigid bitch who doesn’t like me (though she claims to ‘love me’). She shows very little (if any) physical or emotional intimacy towards me. Yes I know it’s my fault for proposing marriage to her in the first place but how was I suppose to know things would turn out like this? There were some warning signs before we married but everyone says love would grow (plus you would think actually committing would be a sign that you are serious about the relationship).

    I would have divorced her a long time ago but we have kids, and I don’t trust her to raise them without me in the house (single moms tend to do a lousy job). She is lax with discipline, and I don’t want my kids to grow to be nasty skanks with a princess mentality/sense of entitlement. She is always fiddling with her smart phone or ipad instead of interacting with us (even at the dinner table, which I try to put a stop to). She’s acts depressed all the time despite having a good job, devoted husband, and beautiful children. I also work full time. I cook, clean, help kids with their homework, do chores around the house, contribute financially, etc but nothing is ever good enough for her as she is always unhappy. doesn’t matter how many compliments I pay her, doesn’t matter if I try to take her out to dinner/dates. She just doesn’t give a rat’s ass about me. Then she gets mad when I don’t make a big deal about valentine’s day - WTF LOL!?!? Is this bitch on crack? She’s probably cheating on me. If she is that’s gross what a bitch. I try to find reasons to love her (part of me still does) but she pretty much does whatever she can to kill that emotion.

  60. Al Hoove

    I’m going to spend some time discussing a broader issue that ultimately plays a huge role in “my wife is a b!tch”. Unfortunately, it cuts two ways: men are often b@stards.

    Ask a female at age 14-16 what she dreams of for her life. The answer almost invariably centers around wealth, adoration, and fame. I want to be a singer, I want to be an actress, I want to be a dancer, I want to be an artist, I want to be a cheerleader. Ask any boy at the same age and he’ll give an answer involving wealth, courage, respect, and recognition: I want to be a fighter pilot/Marine sniper/MMA champion/football player/basketball player/billionaire investor like Warren Buffett/cowboy/motocross racer/Nascar driver, etc. ad nauseum.

    What’s the harm in childhood dreams of glory, you ask? Don’t we all have them? Don’t we still? Don’t we need them in order to reach and challenge ourselves? Absolutely affirmative to all of those questions. The problem is, they also inform us of how we should see ourselves our whole life through. We never quite turn loose of the dream to be content with the life we actually have. We tend to think of our day-to-day existence as a temporary situation until our dreams of glory and wealth materialize.

    Worse, we spend our formative years practicing and rehearsing and performing the fantasy. Our time is spent on music lessons, dance lessons, cheer lessons, acting lessons, football/basketball practice, ring sparring, art camp, wilderness adventure retreats, flight camps, etc. Our thoughts are consumed by the fantasy. Along the way we drift into romantic attachment and wind up married. Then reality hits. And it’s nothing like the fantasy. We resent it. And we resent those who are keeping us from the fantasy. Enter the b!tch. Enter the b@stard.

    “I’m supposed to be rich and famous and adored! And yet here I am married to a high school graduate plumber’s helper who works all day and comes home dirty, tired, hungry, cranky, smelly, self-absorbed who only wants to watch TV, scratch himself, and then wants sex! What about ME? What about MY needs? What about MY wants? That b@stard!” And the mouth and face and body and mindset begin to reflect and project her resentment of dashed hopes. Reality crashing in on the fantasy.

    “WTF, dude! I was cruising towards NASCAR! Seriously! I was about to get a go-cart put together when she said she was pregnant. So I married her because her family was all on my case. I got a job to pay for the baby and have kept it to give her a house and car and furniture and clothes, and what thanks do I get? She’s ballooned up to size Godzilla, won’t cook, won’t clean, won’t put out, calls her part time babysitting a “job”, and gripes at me for everything I do. I could have been the next Jeff Gordon. Instead I’m working 60 hours a week just to keep ice cream on her spoon and listening to her complain. She’s a total b!tch.”

    The truth is, nearly all people are average in most ways. Everybody is slightly above average in some respects and slightly below average in other respects. A few people have particular gifts and abilities, more so than their peers. Some are amazingly intelligent, talented, graceful, beautiful, adept. These are called outliers. Popularly called “stars”. Life is usually pretty kind to them. For us average people, it’s as kind to us as we’ll let it be. Unfortunately, we tend to create a lot of problems for ourselves because of our over inflated expectations.

    Us average folks have to fight it out every day. We’re scrabbling for the things we need to keep home and hearth together. Often living paycheck to paycheck. There’s no big bank account, there’s no big house, there’s no cheering crowds. And if you’re still stuck on your fantasy, then it’s pretty hard to bear the way life has turned out.

    Whenever I hear “she’s a b!tch” or “he’s a b@stard” it’s probably true. But the reason has little to do with the person, rather it’s the inability to be at peace with how life really is. See, it was always going to be this way: stressful, grey, day to day struggling. It’s just nobody ever told you the truth about how it was going to be. And now that you know, you still can’t admit it. Cling to that fantasy and blame others for keeping you from it.

    Start looking at the people around you. You’ll see this over and over and over again. It’s the human condition.

    1. james

      No sorry this is foolish. I’m perfectly satisfied with what I’ve achieved and the way I have turned out… the problem is who I married.

    2. Mic

      The outliers as you call them are unhappy people too. Yet….yet….they have the cash to change whatever TF they want to or have too. They are the Stars…etc. etc. but we are commoners and have to live this life down here. No cash equals unhappiness. I know this is true because at one time I received a huge inheritance…holy shite the pussy flowed from my wife…the happiness…carefree attitude…I was golden man everything I did was awesome….as long as we had the cash! Then we sent all 4 kids to college and cash is tight and dwindling. It gets really tuff now to be anything but a bastard.
      So the true answer to all lifes problems is CASH! I stake my unhappy life on it. CASH IS KING! You could be the most humble…best father…etc. etc. but without CASH you are not SHIT! Believe it.

  61. james

    Do not under any circumstances EVER get married!!! Women of today have been ruined by feminists. It’s no longer good enough to be a provider and a good father. They want some fantasy non existent sensitive douche bag. Stay the hell away from any woman who wants marriage.

  62. Raja

    I was a little constipated a few days ago and spent more time on the toilet than usual. I could hear the bitch yelling for me, wondering where I was. She calls me on the stupid cellphone about 3 or 4 times a day and bitches about me not calling her. I amke the bed in the morning, and while I’m standing there, she takes it all apart and redoes it. I do the dishes and put them in the dish rack, and while I’m standing there, she’ll put all the dishes back in the sink and wash them all ove again. But if I don’t do the bed or the dishes, she bitches about that. She walks into the house from work and immediately starts scolding me and the kids. Such a f**king bitch.

  63. j

    Well as they say opinions are like a certain posterior part of the anatomy; everybody has one. Over sixty years of marriage we have sure had our ups and downs. However, if there are absolutely no more feelings of empathy or god memories, it just might be time to hang it up. Everyone deserves to be happy as life is too short.

  64. Bill Job

    I’ve had enough of her and she is done. The wife has been away over three years and has certainly been fucking some other guy for over five years and i bet she enjoys spreading her legs for him but i feel sorry for him. After a while she will be a dead lay and just use him too. Besides she couldn’t give a decent blow job if her life depended on it. She acted like she was in love with me but it was all about money and as soon as i started watching the cash flow she was gone. I guess i simply married a whore in Sandy and like i was told once you cut off her free spending she will leave. Too bed for her though because she is getting a neck like a turkey and her tits are so saggy and wrinkled this new guy she is banging must be blind or simply never got any pussy before. I bet even her cunt is drying out getting as wrinkled as her ass. ANd oh did i mention her asshole fell out too due to all the drugs she took at one time. I should have dumped her years ago.

  65. lost it

    Today she was telling me about a novel she is reading. I generally said…wow there is so much out there to know and we f**king dont have time to even read what was done or discovered by other.
    10 min later….she tell me that usually trees pollenize in staggered way as spring sets in, but not this time. she read that since winter lasted this long, l trees pollenized at the same time and allergies are going to be bad this year. I pleasantly said, oh! that is a hypothesis. Boom, she stopped talking and turned her face. I said, “you got offended by what I said”. she started off that I a not being nice, blah blah blah………
    I am just scared to even talk to her or respond to her. But she does not leave me alone, she keeps asking me questions…………i f**king dont know the answers to those shit…. like wonder why winter is so long this time.
    It will never end if I start….
    I hate my life (not her). I am so so so loyal and do so much work at home. She just drives me up the wall.
    I wish I could kill my self…but my 2 kids need me. Once they are grown and leave house, I will kill myself.

    1. Uncle Tag

      Ease up brother. It is normal to have these types of differences with other people, especially the opposite sex. Women and men view the world usually as strangers. If you can become patient and calm during these times I think your partner may find a new affection for your strength.
      Remember that it is okay to not know the right answer….life is a journey. Enjoy it when you can and try to make it enjoyable for others when it sucks.

  66. Lang

    I cannot even state my opinion with my wife. She claims I’m being defensive and sometimes says “you don’t care.” It’s like dealing with a 3 year old child. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells with her when we talk in fear of saying something wrong, which leads to her bulling up and getting mad. She’ll say something like, “I just can’t have a conversation with you… there’s no point in talking to you anymore.” The least little thing can get her going and she seems to completely give up on everything. Sometimes when we argue she’ll even go as far to say that she doesn’t care about anything anymore and can’t wait until she dies so she can see her mom again. I think she’s majorly depressed. The next day she’ll be talking about our future together. She’s always picking at me too over little things. I feel like she wants to argue.

  67. RF

    If woman was created from the rib of a man, then that man must have had some f@#ked up ribs!
    In 57 years I’ve been with a pile of females. Married three, the current one for twenty years now. However, if I see twenty one I’ll be surprised as hell!

    Over the last year she has gone from this sweet lady who cares about people and their feelings, to this person who takes sport in BITCHING AT EVERYONE ABOUT EVERYTHING. Now it’s almost like she found this new fun thing she can do……. Really! Complete strangers piss her off in some small way, and she goes out of her way to speak her mind.

    As for the way she talks to me???? Well. It’s like she remembers every little thing that I did over the last twenty years, and now she’s unloading. DAILY!!

    My life sucks now, but I really don’t want to go through the big “D” again. I’m getting old and my need for the opposite sex is not what it once was.
    I’ll tell you this. If I do end up alone. Alone is how I’ll stay. For ever!!!!

  68. superdonkey

    my wife is f**king insane also, she is from the Philippines and i could have thrown a dart into a map and found a more intelligent, attractive and less angry person.
    i got her pregnant and thought i was doing the right thing in looking after her and our daughter but f**k it. she is hyper sensitive to how other people see us and is nice as anything in public but in private she only ever gets angry and calls me names. she has hit me a few times and i do nothing. I bought her a house in her home town before we married just in-case things went bad so f**k it, i’m going to put her on a plane and send her back to the squalid poverty den she loves so much and her freeloading family.

  69. :(

    It’s just hell.
    I work 75-80 hrs a week trying to provide so she gets to raise our babies. The babies are so beautiful. EVERYDAY I get messages from her with the vilest of comments about my family when they did nothing. Her mouth is like a sewer pipe, we haven’t had sex in over 2yrs and don’t even sleep in the same room. I recently took out a 1.5 million dollar life insurance policy but then found out that there’s a suicide clause where you need to wait two years from the date you get it. Ughhhhh. Just want to have the babies provided for. I put it under another family members name. 1.5 years to go. Counting the days. Waking up is a chore in itself. It’s weird I have always worked my ass off but I look forward to sleeping so for that brief moment I can not see her:(

    1. FC

      Dude: Life insurance policy? She’s not worth it. And believe me she will find a way to get that money. So if you do that, the beautiful babies are going to be raised only by the nutcase and that isn’t cool!!! One man to another, you can not do that. Dial back the work load. Get some sleep. Get a lawyer and move on with your life.

    2. j perc

      Put her ass to work dude. Raising kids to be like her? Sounds like day care would be better. She can get a job and you can work less and spend more time with your kids. Personally I wouldn’t keep a woman a week if she pulled that crap. Maybe you should get the life insurance policy on her…lol

    3. JD

      You can’t be serious! You would leave your kids with a woman who treats you like dirt? This is the role model, not really the working and sleeping zombie. You realize life is too short to be this depressed and miserable? Get divorced. Your kids will survive. I promise. Go be happy. Even with them half the time it’s more then you see them now and with only half the money you’ll see it’s worth it. Suicide isn’t the answer. Those kids need YOU.

  70. Mark Licastro

    i caught my wife Bev in bed with another guy. i sneaked up on them and caught them in the act. i never forgave her but i did stay with her for a few more years until she slept with another guy…i found out from her sister who actually felt bad for me and my kids…i raised them all after that because she went to India to find herself…all she found was an abortion when she got back from a random one night stand she had while finding herself….oh well…Ive never been the same and really dont trust women I find them or most of them to be whores….or such selfish bitches that all they think about is a good time and a stiff one if you know what I mean…I want a woman with substance who loves sex but isnt willing to put her relationship at jeopardy because of it….lying sluts

  71. Mister Oginist

    Drink, party, when she bitches, walk out the door. F**k them hard and don’t even ask. The bigger the d**k you are to the hole, the more she’ll want you. Turn your kids on her. When she’s so beat down, she’ll be as malleable as clay.

    I know it’s sh*tty but that’s how you run a c**t.

  72. Fuck the bitches

    The c**ts who peruse this need to f**k off with their trolling “women are emotional beings” horseshit!!!!!
    Tell that to husbands who come home to c**ts f**king other dudes with their kids in the next room or starting fires by using rubbing alcohol to clean open flame burners?are you f**king kidding me?
    We as men build and maintain this world while f**king c**ts,khuuunttts try to undermine and destabilize all that we build.
    To all married cats out there,dump her like a deuce in the f**kin toilet and get a substance addicted whore to be the warm hole.find her as an addict of whatever substance and keep her there.she acts up?punch her in the f**kin face.
    Sick of this world giving license to absolute fuckin crazy and calling it normal we shouldnt be putting up with this bullshit!

  73. Tony

    my wife is such a f**king bitch, took 30min to get in n parked at hospital car park today, guess wat the bitch blame me for her waiting …wtf>?

  74. Tony

    my wife is such a f**king bitch, took 30min to get in n parked at hospital car park today, guess wat the bitch blame me for her waiting …wtf>? when something isn’t right she never accept that she is f**king wrong, always blame the wrong on me, fine f**king apology ain’t enough , it has to be a sincere apology…what the f**k??
    next thing u get is things like, oh we got a communication problem, and bla bla, f**k that try not to lay the gulit trip on me! oh you are so immature, when everything shitty things u do isn’t BITCH

    1. Lilith

      Seriously?! Your wife was in the hospital for, at the very least, a minor procedure or quite possibly, a lengthy stay involving recuperating from a major surgery and you’re here bitching because she was upset that you kept her waiting?! Your priorities are clearly f**ked up. Instead of bitching about your wife on an online forum, how about showing some empathy and compassion?! Depending upon the situation, she could be feeling anything from weariness, pain, confusion, fear, worry, etc. Have you ever been in the hospital before? If so, was your wife with you? Did she stay and soothe you, encourage you, do everything in her power to try and cheer you up and make you feel better? If the answer to any of that is yes, then pull your head out of your ass, yank up your delicate little panties from where they are deeply wedged up your ass, and grow the hell up! You sound like a hyper-sensitive twat who needs to find his man card.

  75. OKFred

    How about we temporarily introduce Shariah Law say for about a week so we can chop off the heads of all the feminists who’ve created our treacherous and family destroying legislation then once they’ve been got rid off we can then ditch the Shariah and restart again with something that looks more like justice and fairness because all Western feminist family legislation smells like bad fanny

  76. Marriage is hell

    It makes me feel that much better knowing I’m not alone. I’d do anything to escape my bitch wife but we have a son and I can’t bare to leave him. I have absolutely no feelings for her, to me she is just a big fat ugly lump of shit I have to drag along behind myself where ever I go. I’d rather be dead then living with this useless piece of shit. I wish there was an easy way out that didn’t affect my son, but it looks like I’ll have to keep putting up with it until he’s old enough to understand.

    1. AlphaBeta

      wow… that sounds painful man. If she’s fat and you buy the groceries, learn how to grocery shop and only buy healthy foods. if you’re overweight yourself you might not be setting a good example but these type of people eat away at a mans ambition anyways so that a tough nut to crack. If she watches TV and doesn’t exercise all the time and you pay the bill shut that shit down. You’re the head of the household… maybe so be the head not the ass.

  77. J Perc

    I was married 20 years. A real work a holic. Wife never worked but constantly complained about money. After 8 years of marriage I got a much better job. I worked double shifts, weekends and never took my vacations, just took the extra money. Wife complained I’m boring and said we need more time together. I turned down weekends and 3 weeks later I’m a worthless SOB because not enough extra money for her to take vacation with friends. So, I just do what I know best, keep working. We grew apart, and I still just worked, got the house paid off and started paying more on her new car. After 12 years of that she just filed for divorce without warning. I moved out, gave up the house, half my 401k, half of savings bonds and I paid her off to keep her out of my pension. I worked the same as ever, paid big money for child support and just tried to recover my losses. I actually rented a room for first 8 years. She remarried 6 months after our divorce, kids seemd to like the guy and I guess he was ok. I really only met him once. Once my youngest Was emancipated, I.concentrated on working for my retirement. I learned after being divorced 12 years the guy left her because the money was gone, she financed the house at 120% of value, lost the house to the bank and now she lives with our daughter and has no home of her own. We been divorced over 20 years now and I’m retired and doing very good, traveling the world. My daughter told me her mom said I’m boring…lol…I told my daughter I may be boring but I’m not homeless…lol. just so you guys know, just keep plugging away because it will come back to you if you don’t give up. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

    1. AlphaBeta

      I agree… a lot of that negative behavior is self destructive, once they’ve destroyed themselves they put their eyes on destroying you. FYI only boring people get bored. I have the same approach to finances. Luckily my wife is catching on. I’ve also realized that any event or trip I pay for entirely she always tries to sabotage, so I always make her pay for part of whatever we’re doing so if she screws it up she loses money too. Works like a charm.

  78. J Perc

    Start out being liberal and agreeable and a woman sees it as a weakness. Don’t start out weak and most problems won’t exist. There’s really no good reason to get married anyway. I learned after my divorce it cheaper to pay a woman for a few hours fun. No small talk, no sad stories, no bulls##t…just pay em, lay em but don’t display em. It has worked very well for me plus I don’t have a hateful woman in my pocket or in my house.

  79. s L

    FFS. everytime her decision is a decision and if one is different from her shit,she call it shortcut or shit decision. she alwaysaways make things 10 times more complicated and f**k it up and she think its one hell of a solution

  80. Tony

    For f**k sake there she is again, making rush decision without any consideration, u can do something because that no other option available at the time, yeah if u take ur finger out of ur b*tthole and think theres more options! stupid f**k

  81. tito

    My wife is a controlling selfish arrogant bitch. Shes always right and my opinions and decisions are always wrong. I hate when im having a good time with friends or family and she tries to ruin it because shes a sour f**king patch. Her mom and dad still f**king spoil her cause shes the only child and she thinks that i have to treat her the same way. We dont even f**k no more and when she gets to bed she wears f**king shorts and a shirt that it looks like am gonna play coby bryant on a one on one. I cant even have a single beer at the housewithout starting world war 3. I will need to write a book to say how crazy and angry this bitch makes me. She brings the worst in me and i wish it wasnt this way

  82. Tired of her shit

    Maybe my situation will relate to most…
    I’m married w/ 4 kids and I think my wife is a bitch and selfish. She has a shitty job so I pay for everything and all she pays for are her own bills (credit cards, student loans, etc.). She decided it would be fair if we split the cooking so I didn’t mind at first cuz all she cooks are things that takes a few minutes to make (like Spam, corned beef, etc.) and she burns it and can’t even do that right. I make real meals that can take over an hour to make. Now, she hardly cooks twice a week and forget about the weekends. And then the bitch has the nerve to say shit when it’s supposed to be my day and I don’t feel like making anything since I had to go pick up my son or daughter from something and I don’t get home until close to 8pm. She’s been home the whole time and all she did was go on the computer or go on her phone, instead of trying to prepare something. There are other times when it’s already past 7pm w/ no dinner yet and she’s just on the computer or doing some shit for her sister. I don’t give a f**k if she does those things but get dinner ready first. To me, a lot of this is common sense and I’ve told her about it but she gets mad and doesn’t listen.
    This bitch even has the nerve to say out loud things that she has to pay for or do for the kids in which she signed them up for by herself (like girl scouts or dance or something else they didn’t ask for). Every time I have to pay the monthly rent or my kid’s private school tuition or everything else, I should make a scene about it but I don’t do that.
    There were times that when we got into fights, she would talk shit about my parents even though I’ve never said shit about hers or any of her family.
    Another time that really pissed me off was when she decided on her own to purchase a car, even though we have 2 perfectly new, good and working Honda’s. It was a time that we got into a fight and my dad was mad at her and told me that she better watch herself because my parents bought our cars and technically they’re under their names so he was just saying that he might take the cars back if she kept acting like that. Like a dumb bitch w/ no common sense, she goes out and buys a second-hand Hyundai. With a shitty job and barely making enough to pay her bills, how surprisingly she had a hard time paying for it and asks me to help her. I told her to go f**k herself and she has a lot of nerve to even ask me to help her. She gave the car to her brother to continue paying and she went back to using the Honda.
    There’s lots of times too when she complains that she doesn’t have enough money for gas but yet she has no problems going to the mall or to Target or driving every where else when it’s not necessary and she could just stay home or stay where she’s already at (like my daughter’s dance studio).
    During the weekends, she’s usually out w/ her sister or at her parents’ house instead of staying at home so when I decide to do shit by myself she starts bitching even though she’s not even home.
    If it really weren’t for the kids (youngest one is only 2), I would have been done w/ her a long, long, long time ago.

    1. AlphaBeta

      Man, I’m glad i found this blog because, I thought I was the only person dealing with stupid BS. Sounds like you took the right approach financially and are aware of whats going on. The area where you may need to lead better is how she spends her time… you’ve got to keep her busy, give her stuff to do things to be responsible for that if she fails only affects her. Don’t ever explain yourself or make excuses and definitely never apologize for anything even when you’re wrong. Turn the pressure on her, eventually she will become overwhelmed she will be forced to start prioritizing by dropping the nonsensical activities and working on the goals you set. Also work on small projects together, join a dance class or something. even if she doesn’t participate initially, you’ll meet new women and that will make her jealous and putty in your palms.

    2. AlphaBeta

      i feel your pain but you may want to start doing new things on your own, like working out, get an expensive new haircut, start a new hobby, go to new places by yourself at first. Make her jealous not in an obvious way just in a not paying attention to her & handling your business sort of way

  83. destroyed 45 year old male that used to be a man

    20 years of it. Same shit as all you guys or worse. Her own family hates her too. Staying cause i don’t want anyone but me raising my kids. High points…tells me I’m a loser. Been making 200k plus for 5 years 125k plus for 10. Destroys our things and the house when I cease to fight back. Has also hit me and scratched me numerous times. I literally walk away and get backed into a corner knowing what the law will do to me if I defend myself. I’ll never forget how she told me to go visit my dead mother rotting in the grave on my first mother’s day without my Mom who died when I was 26. There’s certain stuff she says that only the devil herself would utter. That was her way of getting me to want to hang out with her that day. Always comes back begging for forgiveness days or weeks later or acts like nothing happened. Today 1/1/16 first time ever I said nope. I’m not starting over. So sleeping in separate rooms. Honestly I think she can hide her crazy pretty well so I don’t beat myself up for missing it. I was young and wanted to do the right thing and put a ring on it.
    Plus the sex was good and I am a man. When my youngest is a bit older I will walk at any cost and the siege will be over. But beware. Once she is back on the street she will swallow for you and you might get hooked. lol Man I gotta laugh to hide the tears. Sick woman at best. Possessed by the devil at worst. You make the call.

  84. None

    It was all about the sex back in the day. Now that I’ve had sex with 100+ women and married to a 1/3 bitch I’d rather be single and polish my cars.
    Ass is 90% of why guys get married. Otherwise I’d have settled on a premium tent or small cabin on a few acres.
    I laugh at guys that say “we connect so well” maybe…. but you connect with her holes more.
    Don’t care what women I impress. My dick needs a break anyway

  85. smashed

    My wife is a f**king bitch. Two days out of the month, I am a hero - the ultimate father, the ultimate husband, she smiles around me, loves being around me, tells me she loves me. The other 28 f**king days are a nightmare. She shows absolutely no empathy, no consideration, no love, nothing but selfishness, manipulation and lies. I just ride the wave waiting for the next two good days, but after 8 years, it’s taking its toll on me. I go from hero to villain overnight. I see it in her eyes when she wakes up. “Here we go again” I say to myself. Tonight, she was playing with my son (this rarely happens, she usually ignores him, he’s only 6 for god’s sake!!!) and she made him fall and he hit his head. HE started to cry. She just walked off saying “pfft, he’ll be ok”. Have a f**king heart. She was cuddling the DOG earlier more than her son. It’s just f**king bizarre. I can’t stand the sight of her. I’m rapidly losing any semblance of memory why I married her in the first place. Her act was so wonderful back then. I ignored warning signs because I loved her so much. F**cking act. All of it. What is with women like this? What the hell do they want? Is it a mental illness?

    1. Mark S

      It could be a mental illness or depression at the least. You need to seize the time when she is happy and confront her. Do it gently and ask why she is like that most of the month. Ask if she feels happy. Another thing — people can act like dogs sometimes, the harder you yank on the chain, the harder they pull against you. So, with that in mind, don’t let her attitude phase you, it will just start a cycle you can’t get out of. If she is shitty one day, bring home flowers the next. If she gets worse, just be nicer. She will likely start to question why she is acting that way. If it is mental illness, she may not question it, but you might buy yourself an opportunity or two to approach the subject. Be genuine, be nice, kill her with kindness. At first it will probably drive her nuts and make things a little worse, but I bet she’ll come around. Also, keep in mind that she doesn’t see things the way you do. We play this game where we try to interpret each other and we think we know what other people are thinking. In reality, men are really bad at it, but we do it all the time without thinking about it. Try to consider that she may not be thinking what you are thinking, she may not feel the way you feel, and she may not care about the same things you care about. As for the interaction with the child that you mentioned, most likely she just doesn’t know how to act. I can play junior psychologist and tell you she probably came from a broken home, but that doesn’t really matter. Talk to her about it, deep down she probably knows that she didn’t act appropriately, but she doesn’t know how she is supposed to act. She was likely never taught by her parents how to be loving and nurturing to her child. It doesn’t come natural, so it just causes stress and anxiety for her. If she’ll let you, convince her to ask you for help the next time something like that happens, and you whisper to her what to do. Tell her what you would do. I hope that you have a strong enough relationship to make this all happen. Marriage can be a lot of work sometimes, but usually, if you put some work in, things can be made better and it isn’t so much work all the time. In the immortal words of Sun Tzu (The Art of War) “For to win one hundred victories in one hundred battles is not the acme of skill. To subdue the enemy without fighting is the acme of skill.”

    2. I hate my wife janXt

      I totally agree with u man selfish self centered 2 out of whole month she is normal ? Lol yes coz those 2 days shes having period she rather sit her effin fat ass watching tv coz shes too damn tired theres jo right or wrong but iam doing it for my kids thats all

  86. Nicholas A Chadwick

    gay men have these same problems. stand up for yourself and when she is calm set rules for her bitchyness like you cant do anything on this list or I will leave for the day. Refer to her bitchy side as a different person like tudy, eeyore or their first initial. AND ABOVE ALL DO NOT ENGAGE IN HER TANTRUMS. Just walk away take pride in your ability to maintain and control yourself and then NATURALLY you are the “MAN” again.

  87. isis56

    The first time I heard I was a bitch was three days after my husband came home from the navy. all because First I did not greet him walking in his fathers door. Second I did not stand with him when he tried to use his Accrued seniority rights of nine years to put a little blond girl that worked in his department on seconds while he went to days. I told him for two years that If he could avoid making coworkers and others in the community angry or disrupting lives with his seniority, that was when we could start a real marital life with sex and time off. He stormed out of his fathers house that day with the keys to the house we selected calling me a mercenary bitch. throwing the kitchen table at his father and the two women crying on the other side of the room. Starting the next 31 years of hell for everyone trying to deal with him. Three years ago he came home after three years in Rehab from MRSA caused problems starting with his spine in 2009.

    He decided while he was there the first interference in his life was going to be met with his defiance to what we thought he should consider, His first agenda was to draw 31 years of a sexless marriage to a close, by raping me. His next thought was nobody but him had any right to decide his life from then on, as he says under his roof he is the final and only judge and arbiter of his rights in life.

    He wont negotiate with me or any one, he just crushes traditions under his heel. Compromise is not any thing he considers, just the way he is going to do as he wills. No matter who is left crying. Usually me because I have to hear whose life he disrupted with what he wants. He’s an equal oppertunity defiance to society> does not matter what roll you fill he will insult you until somebody gets mad. tries to take a swing then he tears into them.

    I have no friends now, he has them all so scared they will cross him they wont even talk to me. and its gone from Mercenary bitch to whore bitch because I became so tired of trying to get him to see to needs other than his I just wanted to hear I was pretty, feel like someone other than a person put here to keep him under control, not be told I was a useless sponge that earned nothing in the marriage or did any thing for what I was given.

    I had his family and many of their friends always begging me to keep him from taking what he wanted for every ones good. The only leverage I had was to make a promise that someday soon a sex life would start he would be able to do as he pleased have time off the job. Just to see those promises broken time after time to hold it fort the next time he needed to back down for somebodies needs.

  88. dave

    Is there a place we can all meet up. Like all the pissed off husbands in this chat. We need to have a few beer smoke a few joints, f**k a few whores. Shit, I am losing my mind and I need to talk to other men who have this same problems.

    1. Dusia

      Absolutely nothing will change in your, guys, situations IF neither or both of you and your spouses refuse to communicate in an open, respectful, understanding, constructive, kind manner. Now, IF BOTH are willing to an open communication and forgiveness, then there is hope. I understand many of you, as I see so many of my married men friends struggle with their selfish, egotistical, self entitled, unruly, inconsiderate, immature, angry wives. It’s especially sad, when a man tries to do everything in his power to make things work FOR YEARS, but refuses to be strong and file for divorce when damage to the marriage is beyond repair. Yet still he finds it justifiable to commit adultery? Religious or not, Heavenly Father would not have approved of a destructive, unloving, uncaring BIG LIE that many of you live.

      Both spouses ROB each other of potential happiness with someone else. This is cowardice.

      I too was in a destructive marriage, made many mistakes, however my husband was incredibly unforgiving, even when I asked for forgiveness for something I would not do but he did, he still refused to forgive. He would shut down for weeks and refuse to talk to me. Deny me affection, attention. The communication was broken beyond repair. At two last years of our marriage, he became physically abusive. Honestly, if he did not sustain the traumatic injury that left him paralyzed, I would probably have been dead by now.

      Good thing, I realized, finally, after he put me away, that the marriage never had the chance at longevity. I regret many years of my life spent with that man. Best years of my life.

      I urge you all to do everything in your power to repair your marriages and if ANY AND ALL ATTEMPTS fail, GET OUT OF IT! Everybody deserves to be happy and healthy. Everybody deserves to be loved, appreciated, understood and cared for. It is a both way street. It’s foolish to believe that some of your spouses will change. It’s foolish to believe it is OK to live in the loveless, sexless, abusive marriages.

      You look back and regret the years of wasted gloom and doom, unhealthy ridiculous life that you live with your unapologetically selfish spouses.

      There are plenty of good women out there, with whom you can have mutually loving and respectful relationships and perhaps marriages. Hopefully, next time you’ll be careful how to choose a partner and use your discernment better.

    1. Dystonic Rxn

      Brutus. Some days I would not disagree with this statement. I do know some women who do not conform to this statement and a few men who do. LOL

    1. Real Deal

      Ok, that was funny.

      On a serious note, sounds like the OP’s wife doesn’t want to seek help because she knows she’s the problem because she’s been cheating.

      As hard as it is, OP you need to start getting your house in order and file for divorce, there’s more to her unwillingness to seek help than you know.

  89. Tony

    My wife turned a nasty bitch once she started paid work,Of course we were happier with a 2 income coming in but that soon changed, She felt more independent now making her own money and I guess going from being a stay at home Mum to a money maker changed her attitude, She started working longer hours coming home in bad moods and taking the anger out on me, Our communication dropped our sex life dropped & we basically felt like flat mates than hubby and wife,Then came the ‘nights out with the girls’ and ‘after work coffees’,I still to this day believe she was having an affair, She would go out every weekend and leave me at home with the kids come home at 4am and just ignore me not tell me about her night or even give me a bit of sex, Eventually I got sick of it and snapped at her telling her to see how the relationship has just gone down hill, She said she no longer loves me and took off with my kids, It hurt like hell, For two weeks I was ringing just to talk to my kids she let me talk but refused to let me see them, I tried to keep cool but I snapped once again screaming because she won’t let me see my kids, She got a restraining order on me and certain hours I could contact my kids, Eventually it was lifted in court when she finally saw the pain it was having on me and my kids,We are back to being civil now for the kids sake, But she still just can’t acknowledge me talk to me or try to work things out again, Her friends are nothing all but a bunch of single mothers and divorcees who I believe have gotten into her head and turned her into the woman she became, Mid 40’s skanks who are out every week on the prowl.. So yeah my ex wife is a bitch and that’s to some of the reasons why lol

    1. JD

      The end of this marriage might be one of the best things to happen to you. She’s selfish and mean. And apparently thinks the skank lifestyle will make her happy. Far be it for anyone to say otherwise. Grab your popcorn and watch the show. You’ll be much happier without her. And your kids will be grateful for a place to come to that resembles peace. Keep it that way. My sympathies overall.

  90. The Real Deal

    The problem I see is a fast paced change in society that has outpaced the teachings and learnings of generations. My wife for instance says “I’m free, white and over 21” My parents were born in the 30’s and we had kids late. Her parents are from the baby boom and are/were hippies so even though we’re 2 years apart, generational changes are happening too fast. I have employees who are cool with baby daddy’s and boyfriends. I have others who have multiple kids with multiple dads. Nobody in all of this is happy. Kids are screwed up, marriages are screwed up, everyone thinks they deserve and can go out and get better and the internet promotes that you can. The world is screwed, our country is screwed so why why shouldn’t your marriage be? Something big has to happen in order to hit the reset button. Men see women in shape after kids and wonder why their women aren’t. Women see men with beer bellys and ask the same thing. Media has changed everything for the worse, we’re all screwed. If you think your wife is a bitch and hates sex, you’re probably 1/2 right, she just hates it with you. You are probably like me and think just the opposite and that you could do better and she’s just a bitch. She may or may not but neither can you. You’ll most likely end up with another bitch who’ll take you for what cash you have left over from your first marriage. My advice, go buy a Real Doll, swallow your pride and make and live by a budget. Sex robots are so close to being created and we’ll all have what we want without the sacrifices. Just be a good dad, pay your child support and move on. She’s not worth it and youre no stud. Find a way to get a satisfying nut and ditch the mental BS

  91. JD

    I could only read half of these posts and replies before the shame of being this gender nearly drowned me.

    Sadly I know these women really are mostly crazy. Or selfish. Or entitled. Or cold. Or mean. Or miserable. Etc. I see it in my co workers, sisters, neighbors, church members, friends, etc. and truly I have mentioned to many bitching about their men or marriage “why don’t you just bitch to you girlfriends?”, tell your man thank you and offer sex several times a week? he will likely think you’re amazing and you’ll both be happier. They don’t do it of course. Bitching is somehow more satisfying. I can’t explain it. It’s truly boring. I think one guy above had it right. The feminist movement basically ruined most women. Personally I like a man opening a door for me for which I say thank you. I like wearing a dress and I like a man who acts like a man. But seriously, after reading a lot of these posts and simply ignoring the vulgar words I just have to say yes, do divorce. Your kids deserve more then a living hell and really being broke has to be better then your self inflicted torture. Clearly you can’t please the psychopath nor will she ever wake up and appreciate you even trying to. I am female and there it is from the horses mouth. I’m sorry.

    For me, Dr Laura was a huge help and I wish I knew her magic 20 years ago. IF YOU STAY I suggest you THROW her book ‘proper care and feeding of a husband’ at the bitch and say quietly and calmly with a hard look in your eye “last chance baby”. Maybe. Just maybe. She will read it. But likely not. That’s reality. Because in her paradigm she’s the victim. And she doesn’t need to change, you do. So tell her you will change! Then change your address and marital status. She’ll realize what she lost when she sees what she now has to do, date and really what being all alone is about… And you can grab popcorn and enjoy the show. 😎

    1. Dystonic Rxn

      Wow JD. I am amazed by your post. In this feminist driven society where men have no voice to speak about abuse and inequality your are a shining beacon.
      I mean I get it that for centuries men have abused women w their strength and power as well as position to the detriment of women and now the tides of turned especially in first world countries.
      Women deserve respect and to be honored and now unfortunately the pendulum has swung too far the other way as it often does. Does this make it OK? I am not responsible for the misogynistic behavior of my forefathers and ancestors. Nor will I continue to stand for the misandry of the current feminist society.

      1. JD

        I truly think women ruined them selves and the feminist movement was definitely the pendulum. It seems women want the cake and to eat it too. (Prob why so many are fat… aside from americas addiction to sugar and portion size.) I have almost theorized many women actually trap men with marriage and you poor guys almost don’t stand a chance. As a Christian I don’t theorically subscribe to hooking up etc but if it weren’t for religion I can’t see why any sane person would marry. Overall, again I feel a sense of shame over how many of my gender act. Sad to admit out loud.

        To those with bitch about the language and comments on this thread… stop reading. Let people vent here… it’s healthier then the alternative. Duh.

  92. Heather

    Soooo I haven’t read all your posts although I might be able to help since I am a woman married to a woman. Wait maybe not cause I’m in the same situation… she’s a bitch!

  93. Jd

    This is truly sad to read and disheartening. No wonder marriage is so unappealing to many and delayed in general. I just don’t understand why these women don’t understand how easy it is to keep a partner happy. Very simple formula as I stated in my post above. Maybe it’s this whole self entitled self centered attitude that has over run our country? I don’t know? Thoughts? Regardless… life is too short to be this miserable. Really.

    1. Tony

      I totally agree on the self centered thing, i rather call it double standard, its a fundamental aproblem from a start and when theres problems its never is her problems always other s, n if she done some work she always have to exaggerate n want recognition come on wtf? I do no less than her shes just don,,’t see it

  94. groenlandia

    here we go again this fkin bitch choose herself over her kids so she heads off leaving the kids to me while shes away wine n dine, how effin selfish is she, wat kind of selfish mum is that? she always always moaning abt minding her kids, its her effin kids come on. nobody enjoying all the hard work of minding child but u don’t moan abt it…….

  95. Tony

    I seriously cannot understand how a mum can be so selfish n choose to go away on holiday without her kids, does she not worry abt them at all? She seriously choose herself over her kids for f sake, its not like shes does all the chroes around the hse and i do nothing i do no less than her if not more, she act like shes tired in front of her kkds and guess wat this morning shes hearing to airport 5 am not a fukin problem, when she always have to moan abt looking after her kids , she is the mum thats her job and its mine too but i never moan like her………she seriously can go f herself u selfish biatch

    1. I hate my wife janXt

      Yep Tony thats perfectly rite everything she does has 1 trillion legit reason to be and wat not by her has gezillion reason to be wrong thats the bottom line

  96. Flying solo

    I never ever planned on getting married. As a carefree 21 year old student I met my wife to be whilst clubbing. She had 2 children and I was not keen on settling down. We mutually agreed on a casual relationship. A year went by and graduation dawned in 2010…visa and tickets were booked for the bucket list dream of travelling Asia. A month before departing she tells me she’s pregnant. A shock and some have said a planned shock on her part but regardless I stay, move in together and start to make a serious, non casual go at things. 7 months later my daughter is born and I’m a dad of three with all the sole provider responsibilities that go with. I’m not bitching about this…i knew what was expected of me and tried and continue to try giving my wife and family everything they wanted and needed. Fast forward to 2017 (married in 2014) wife has still not worked a single day since our youngest started school…our financial situation has deteriorated to the song of 10k debt, mostly catalogues and hidden debts (although I must admit some of which are my credit card debts). My wife does not take criticism well..she spends hours a day tapping on games on her phone and promised to get a job. This promise was made 2 years ago. I’m not a demanding husband , I don’t get mad when things Are not done, in truth ive come to expect nothing from her. I do all the hard work, pay all the bills, occupy the kids , regularly cook dinner every night. Her only official responsibility in our house is to keep the house presentable and do the laundry (As she’s in all day) and do the weekly food shop on Wednesdays. It’s now Monday and the fridge is still empty. Is it wrong for a man who works in excess of 50 hours a week and then walks home 2 miles per expect some dinner?
    Onto the mornings….tantrums, disorder and shouting are my daily alarms. She thinks she’s depressed? Shes hit me a couple of times, told kill myself is a small taste….I’ve put all our debts I to order and am gradually paying them off….i say this as I genuinely feel being married to someone should alleviate the stress of another and in general make each other’s life easier and blessed. Our life together is exactly the same as it was in the beginning. We have not moved forward as a family, no mortgage, no holidays only problems that I feel I am trying to fix solo.

    Should marriage be a partnership or one carrying another?

    Apologies for the essay…sometimea a rant helps 😄

  97. stu

    wow….got thru 70% of these comments…just too much…so much pain….I live in thailand…have had some girlfriends here but thankfully never had enough money to get married….would have likely been screwed as so many cashed up middle aged euro gents have been here…losing millions of baht…houses…cars……all of it…high number of wreckages in thailand…probably billions of baht in foreign money this country has swallowed up…ok…getting long winded (and I’ve just started) what’s the answer? mmm….although I am buddhist I actually see the islam perspective (and yes people I also see that religion is poison…mostly created for manipulation…power play) if there is anything I can say for the muslims at least they keep their women in check…they wont let the woman fuck them over in any way…and she knows if she tries she could be killed for it…higher buddhist way is to find some ecstasy or bliss thru mantras and meditation…rise beyond duality into oneness which is nothing…nothingness is one thing which is two things and everything…therefore it is possible to deal with all info as though it is nothing…everything has meaning and is meaningless at the same time…in this level of awareness it is possible to manipulate things…play with the opposites…it is possible to hypnotize a woman by use of concentration and a mantra so that she is in love with you…in this way…you will always be the boss…the one she needs….it is not as simple as growing a pair of balls…manning up or whatever else has been advised….it takes spiritual intelligence…emotional disipline…women will continue to fuck men over because they can….in many cases a woman will leave her nice guy to have sex with a criminal…biker…mafia..why? those dudes are taking charge… dont gotta be a bad guy…all you gotta do is be educated enough to know how to catch a woman and keep her wanting you…in this world you are either playing or getting played…if you dont join islam which will give you more control over your woman…then you use the buddhist back-channel way of hypnotising her with a mantra and she will always want you…though if you cheat on her it means karma for you…some negative events occuring due to your actions….I found charles manson to be interesting…grubby..skinny little guy with a guitar able to pull beautiful teenage girls…control them….get them to do anything for him (same as a woman manipulates man) many gurus have done it….aahhh…basically its a shit game…if you dont need a partner it is best….but actually this is part of how you catch a woman….by not giving a shit either way….woman will be interested in this as it is naturally in her bitchy nature….nothing direct works with the woman…she like a cat needing a string to be dangled in front of her eyes to swing at is only the really clever men who have used occult means (back-channels…magic) to gain control over a woman’s mind who have enjoyed women on their own terms (or muslims who have achieved their desires by religious law and violence supported thereby) men in western societies are pussy whipped by feminists and screwed by jew-controlled governments passing ridiculous laws….poor guys…there’s a better way…they just never learned it…having said all this it is very sticky information….the heaviest karma is sexual in nature…we are all here because of sex….its such a big deal that if you give it up and have some effective methods you can find yourslef living in nirvana while still on earth…a saint…a living buddha with no desires at all…I will add that seminal retention would make a big difference to many relationships….the way of tantra which is what some monks of tibet practice… this type of sex is actually a way of realizing oneness….you can go back and forth breathing with visualizations hundreds of thousands of times in meditation to realize here is the same as there and this is that…or…YOU CAN FUCK A WOMAN FOR SEVERAL HOURS WITHOUT EJACULATING WHILE SHE HAS MULTIPLE ORGASMS AND YOU BOTH RISE UPON WAVES OF HUGE ENERGY UNTIL A BREAKTHRU CRESCENDO WHICH SMASHES DUALITY….aaahhh….the ecstasy….a minor enlightenment if you will…I have practiced in this way for many years…never trying to hold on…life is like a feast…why be stuck at one part of the table?…dont you wanna move on from the crackers and try the chocolate cake? I cannot say I feel sorry for those who get married….its just another part of society that is outdated and smart folks will steer clear of…thousands of years ago…did humans need contracts? how was it done? ok..there was a lot of sexual violence but aside from those using force there was mutual understanding…trying of various partners…finding out wow…..this is great when we do it…lets keep doing…but of course ownership came into play…man needing to control the pussy…no doubt the first prostitute was an ape-like woman given for sex to some rock ape offering a shiny bright coloured stone of some sort to her controller….must get smart people…times have changed…game is duality right?…oneupmanship…play or be played… way to play is not in minor skirmishes with the ignorant rabble but to be a master in it (ie..neo cheater…like the churches…mosques..temples) get your vision…lay out your rules and have people follow them…do something that makes you the star then you have control over what comes to you….church takes 10% of peoples wages (the tithe) .wow…the riches…what a scam…it is written…a law in peoples minds to abide by…something they will actually feel bad or guilty about if they dont pay it….lastly…dont let em get to you guys….have your plan and make yourself a sun and you can have your own set of planets orbiting you…people who feel at one with you and can only agree with you….research the psychology that manson used on girls….basically he picked girls who had problems…who’d been kicked out by their parents…who had self esteem issues…he listened to them…gave them advice…made them feel special while appearing as the really special one in all his dealings….I am not saying you gotta be a heartless bastard…but that man had dicipline…wisdom…he had solid opinions on what a woman’s place should be and enforced them…he did what governments and religions do to people…be the benefactor…lay down the law…set forth the way of life….absorbing all the lives of those operating within his way…like extensions of his life….the man who gets a woman to stay with him can do same….nice guys will be fucked over every time…for those in the dark evolution is cruel but its cool if you know what is happening

    1. JD

      Are you kidding me? You are hysterical. So women are just bitches? Here for sex? Dumb as a cat with a string? Should be taught or put in their place? AND You seriously admire a sick psychopathic cult leader/murderer like Charles Manson and starry eyed Islamic radicals generally manipulated?You support physical and emotional abuse and/or control? Oppression? Mass Murder? Mass conformity? You seriously think hypnosis and chants/mantras will win you women and happiness? Do you also believe in fairies in the garden and a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow? It’s thinking like this that repulses anyone with one ioda of intelligence or conscience. Humanity sacrificed for generations to rise above Neanderthal thinking and medieval practices. Religion has its place and it’s not for self serving sexual domination and elevation nor idiotic narrow minded degrenation of humans. Crawl back under your rock and let these guys get some useful advise that may actually help them.

  98. stu

    at the discretion of the moderator I will shed some more light for some mind/minds to receive….the laws that governments pass concerning divorce (and especially drug laws) are for the purpose of wreaking havock in society so continued profits can be made (money funneled back into society to ensure the ongoing operation of the “shitstem”) in other words most laws are nothing but revenue schemes….putting it bluntly…scams……in the last comment I touched upon a major problem which is the dualism that feminism operates within…make no mistake the laws have been carefully created to screw men out of money….it’s part of the dominator way….elite way….hails way back to such an animal as a royal sitting on a horse and chopping the head off a commoner who wouldn’t bow down…if anyone is reading this are they falling asleep yet? the utter meaninglessness of info and yet the meaning for whoever assigns meaning….I’ll come right out with it….I think a lot of women’s bitchiness comes from not being fucked hard or long enough…it stems from sexual…spiritual..emotional and physical dissatisfaction…would it be a stretch of the imagination to suppose that a woman feels a sense of being used or cheated by only receiving 10 or 15 minutes of hard rough sex before her man blows his wad in her and shortly after falls asleep snoring? after many times of this might she just feel like a used root-sack? her vagina like a piece of equipment for short time regular usage? a mini-fleshy-funpark for the frantic boy to go apeshit inside of? lol if there is anything to this theory….WHY WOULDN’T SHE BE PISSED OFF? in my opinion a woman should be thoroughly ravaged…possessed by the vigor of the man to such a degree that she is under his spell….totally absorbed in him as in a datura trance (incidentally the deleriant scopolamine which is extracted from datura has been used many thousands of times by colombian men to rape women with their consent) there is a possession factor at work here…how many human beings know what sex is? the deepest meanings of it? we all know if the sex is lousy the relationship will usually fail…but what are the implications of the act? in truth it is an act of violence and the only way to turn it into something beautiful is to extend it’s duration…ok folks..honing in on it here…THE MEN ON EARTH ARE NOT FUCKING THEIR WOMEN PROPERLY… what I am saying now is in the short term act the woman is feeling violated…used…and in the long term act the woman is being stimulated…pleased…served..entertained…supported…encouraged…you can look at it a million positive ways…in the long term act of hours (taking occasional pauses of course to pull out and do some breath work) both are actually being possessed in the fuck by increased frenzy and heat of duality leading to breakthru into oneness….this is HEALTHY….the short term act is simply the man possessing the woman with his force and blowing his load….UNHEALTHY….leading to bitterness…bickering…in fact to mental disease mostly in womans case and physical disease in mans case by losing so much of his manna…his life force….probably turns a lot of men into cranky old bastards in later life…so folks…answer…LEARN TANTRA….LEARN HOW TO HAVE SEX FOR HOURS AT A TIME AND MEDITATE AFTERWARDS….initially man should have an ejaculation only from time to time…and after a year or so…no ejaculation…it is not bad for prostate gland….just requires massage of prostate after a session…really a man can please his woman again and again day and night by this method….what happens over time is sexual need decreases as the spiritual aspect increases…heightened awareness…natural consciousness of ecstasy…meditation takes over…it turns solo because duality has been by-passed….really this is the next step for humanity…not no sex…not women are evil….women are dirty…women are users….money hungry and all the shit that has been spoken…when the real man appears the real woman will come out too and relations between people will improve…but as long as sex is labelled dirty and looked down on by religions people will be blocked and infantile….just like cars spinning their wheels in mud…sadly ignorant and bitterly twisted….their evolutionary process thwarted and we will have more violence…more mass shootings…wars and so forth…there are deep secrets I know of within the relationship of pussy and cock which directly influence major parts of life…I have revealed a portion..I’ll stop around here and hope folks can work it out…catch phrase for humans now is not ‘get your shit together’ it is ‘get it on for as long as you can’…..short sex should be a punishable crime coz how else will the boys become men so that the real woman can appear and evolution to oneness consciousness come about?

  99. Johnny walker

    Our Fucken hate my bitch of a wife, she’s the most horrible thing ever, she’s rude, mean uncaring,unfeeling,unloveing,shes a bitch, I don’t like her at all. The time we spend togather is a waste of my life. I have no friends or family I wasted half my life an now I just want to die rather than spend another day with the bitch

  100. m

    I loved this man risked my life to have his child after 5 years and a beautiful daughter the things he says to me are unbelievable and I won’t waist the time repeating them, sadly but readily I would end this nightmare but he keeps the bullshit going and unfortunately my love for him allows it…its a lie the trust is gone, the love is one sided but he uses that side over and over when it benefits him and throws it away when he can disappear and get what he’s looking for cause although I’m embarrassed to admit it he knows he can come back and the home he left will still be waiting….how do I finally let him go, I don’t want our daughter to continue to see how awful her mother could be treated by her own father verbally and think its exceptable in her future relationships…its not and I want to be a better role model for my baby…..its just so fucking hard…..I love him or the him I wish he was….but its not to be and I know in my head it has to end….I’m just trying to tell my heart…its hard of hearing lol
    Wish me luck

  101. Brad

    it’s not easy being dealt emotional abandonment from my wife, if i died then her and the in laws would have a party, good luck to all


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