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I hate my husband

He’s a selfish loser asshole! When he leaves I secretly hope he gets in a wreck and dies so my daughter and I can be free of him. I quit working because I couldn’t stand the thought of my kid going to daycare (still can’t) so until she is old enough to be home alone I am stuck with his sorry abusive ass. He constantly criticizes me and everything is my fault! He makes fun of the way I fold laundry, load the dishwasher, bathe my kid, hell he even criticizes the way I roll down the bag in the cereal box. Not sure how I ever survived without his helpful critiques. I made the horrible offense of setting something on top of his tube of toothpaste which put a crease in it and he went on and on about. I am not even kidding. I should have asked him if that crease meant it would no longer prevent tooth decay, what an asshole. I am in therapy and honestly embarrassed to tell my therapist half of what he says because she probably already wonders why I don’t just leave him. Last week she told me I am in a domesticly abusive relationship. I. Cried. I try to shield my kid from him as much as possible and worry about how his behavior is affecting her, maybe she’d be better off at daycare. But I’d have to share custody because even tho I can leave him she can’t and he’d make my life hell thru her. He’d do everything in his power to alienate her from me and I couldn’t bare it so I will just go on wishing he’d die. I’m trapped!

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  1. Donny

    If divorce is not an option then there is one option…….. Manage anyhow to sit with him and kindly hold his hand(i know it’s very tough but it will save you a lot of pain later) …… Ask him if he is under stress due to his work because most men when get abused at work from their seniors they bring their frustration at home………. So just hold his hand and ask if he really want your family to be happy then he must change his attitude……. Ask him to share his problem with you……. Say that you are his wife and must share each other problem… Tell him to start over with each other and become a better family for daughter and specially for each other

  2. Marie2

    Take up quilting or some other amazing fun hobby …Use his money …you’ll have a fun hobby to share with your daughter and lasting memories with her…be solo happy with your life and the fun things you do that his behavior is barely noticeable anymore. Tell him your praying for him to be happy too…pray with your daughter..xoxo

  3. Angela

    I just read your situation

    I had something similar he was so OCD on everything I did and wanted to criticise me at every opportunity.

    My way to deal with his behaviour was at first ohh let me do it again let me keep him happy.
    Then one day I just stopped.
    I asked him to sit down and said to him, I try my hardest to please you, but I’m obviously not upto your expectations, I have given this lots of thought and think there is only 2 things I can do.

    1 carry on but you are making me feel awful to the point that I’m not even interested in our marriage and moreover our sex life so I think this needs to stop. Until we get our relationship closer.
    2. Please show me how you want this home kept and show me detail by detail so that I please you. Because I cannot live with someone who wants to put me down so much.

    At first he had a go and got sarcastic.

    But when I closed my legs and showed zero interest in sex, he started to question me am I having a affair why no sex I explained the above and can’t do it unless I feel something from that person. If he was nice for 5 days I would do it but go all out to please him so he realised what he was missing. As soon as we did it he reverted back so I stopped for longer eventually he realised what was happening and we spoke about everything. The underlining factor was his brother as a kid who is older then him always put him down. And to be honest when I watched closely when they where together he still did now
    He was 42 my hubby was 37

    So I started paying a lot of attention when they where together and told his brother just how amazing and perfect he is and how much he tries and made sure hubby heard me big him up.
    He so appreciated it and began to mellow against me.

    Now if something is wrong I will say
    Ok tell me what you expect and we discuss it.

    You must open the dialogue and use your instincts and take something away that he wants but also try and find what makes him like it.
    It took me just over a year.

    3 years later I have a husband and sole mate

    Don’t give up try and find out first what makes him that way good luck


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